pe mail that is clearly to. met His. action

y = breaking a law. If ‘there is no such law against the invasion of private mail . there ought to be. Of cou it is not on the basis. f law that I would like him to ‘give up his sticoping. I love him and trust him ‘and he. loves . me.and says he: trusts me.

. But this action.of his: makes. 1

‘me feel: that he: does. not trust

needs to snoop on me to discover something or other that is worrying ‘him. To this ~ theory” of ‘maine, he’ ‘simply “says, ="

really feel he “should, NOT ever read my mail, without my perfaission. H He. inst says,

You - can leave him. you can threaten to leave if ‘he ever does it again.-Or you can “get even” with him by doing something le hates you to do. Or you can gather better arguments in support

of your cause and more.

skilful ways to present them. Or you: can. refuse to cook, or make love, or work, or

7 ‘without my permission, ‘but -: Or -

instead of fighting with you over a pet theory I have, I have decided to offer you, here’ and ‘now, my ‘per- mission for you to read my maikany time. you: want to do so.” ~

I like. your’ “theory. “(My mail is MY. mail and anyone

with ‘Tay permission). However, you do not live in”,

tp ey _- : ta

a theory. You live in a love relationship ‘with your man.

Give-more attention-toyour ~

opportunities where you. live and less attention to your problems “ where ' you

sarees

“

whatever..OR, you can.say - ' to him, “Our: friendship and © love and happy times are being threatened by my insistence on ‘standing™ my _ ground about a theory that has always been important to me’ but-is not ‘important. to you, Tye. told you*lots of times | Tan not adverse to you seeing what is in my-mail. I still ‘don’t like your doing it

Fr may ! for appointments for individual, family’ or group ‘counselling. His Office in the International Plaza Hotel ( pen Tuesda, Lys only) for the convenience of North Shore residents. : ;

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&-don’t miss our. = ) - ae Sidewalk:Sale - Ge . " Saturday; Sune’ 27th

thai I was. ‘He . iooked stunned for a minute, then

QUESTION: -: him plus 1 am a little bit In the four y years we have mousey anyway and always been married; J-have been --have been. Well,..anyway, pretty mousey with | my what I want to tell you and husband. He knows : about is about - that amppenca

oftener. The point is you KNOW... you've got the strength to stand up and be = counted. And HE knows it. ; Do it when, you know it ‘is

“Golly I'm_proud: of ‘you. I

; honestly ‘didn't, think you had

"ft in’ you!” In‘ the minute I was blasting him, I felt good. And~ then when he was telling me. he was proud of

‘me I felt better still. It was great. But should I keep it up? Should I blast him more often?

: STEWART: ~ “Down” girl! ‘Don't decide ahead: ‘of time to “blast him”

@ mouse, but sy xe are “The

Mouse that Roared” and

pounds more than me everyone felt good about it! while I'm apes 4 ft. 11, he’ - that I elt very very strongly had not paid any ttention -to my viewpoint and: was. all for just going ‘head: with his. Well: I > myself . with the

him

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