Wednesday, December 3, 1986 -

North Shore News

Bob Hunter

@ strictly personal ®

THERE MAY be more than 4,000 children now being educated at home in B.C., according to West Vancouver parents’ advocate Tunya Audain. Certainly there are least

2,000.

Of course, many parents who keep their kids at home prefer to adopt a Jow profile rather than at- tract the attention of the education cops.

These would be people who are thoroughly disgruntled with the public school system. Tunya believes that, by far, the largest number of such parents in Canada are in B.C.

That would be in keeping with our rugged far-West individualism, wouldn’t it?

The over-all effectiveness of home education, of course, re- mains to be tested and it has its share of critics, not all of whom are merely defending a vested in- terest in the public school system.

There is the serious question of whether or not parents are quali- fied to teach, especially to teach their own children. Also, there is the legitimate fear thai home schoolers might grow up to be lone wolves, unable to cope with social activity.

It is this second fear, I know, that has held me back several times when I was on the verge of yank- ing my kids from school out of frustration with the system or some particular teacher.

Yet a lot of the behaviors which kids pick up in school are so nega- tive that we really might be wiser to bypass the ordeal entirely.

I recall one poignant moment when my younger son broke down crying after a screaming match with his mother over homework. “fused to be perfect,’’ he wept. ‘Then I went to school.’’

Of course he wasn’t ‘‘perfect’’. Nobody is. But the fact is, he was a sweetheart of a kid, easy to get along with, eternally cheerful and optimistic.

School hit him like a barn door slamming in his face. After three years of endlessly struggling to keep him in line, make him move at the pace of the rest of the class, and generally learn to snap to at-

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tention when ordered, he is, I’m sad to say, a much less happily- adjusted child.

- He is given to fits of depression and outbursts of anger which never used to happen. He has picked up the attitudes of the other little boys in schvol, who think girls stink, who always want to fight, who throw stones and swear outrageously.

Terrific! In exchange, what have we got out of it? Sure, he reads. But we had him started in that direction anyway. His grasp of ccithmetic seemed negligible until my wife started sitting down with him, and with a couple of nights worth of effort, showed him basic stuff that he just hadn’t been lear- ning at school.

The point was the personalized attention.

There is another, more subile factor. My kid is used to being talked to at home as though he was an intelligent human being with something like equal rights, pro- viding he accepts his share of responsibilities.

You can imagine his horror and confusion when he got to school and started being told to line up for this, sit down for that, so here, don’t go there, etc.

The great anti-establishment educational thinker Ivan Lich says that schools simply program peo- ple to be the perpetual clients or lawyers, doctors, teachers and so forth.

That’s a sweeping indictment, more cruel than complete.

Tunya Audain's analysis is more specific. The growth of school boards into the Jarge middle Management operations of today ‘thas become counter-productive to education,’’ she says. ‘\

“Unless the schoot board system is quickly modernized, there will be more calls by parents and public alike to abolish or radically reform this system. The rush for education can no longer abide an inefficient, arrogant and outdated system

which serves more as an obstacle than a facilitator of education.”

She adds, unrelentingly:

“We can speculate why the system has become so bogged down and defensive. Is it bureaucratic connivance, designed to protect an industry which is

self-perpetuating and self-rewar- ding? ts it blind faith in the belief that lay crusices, elected from the comauinity, can stl operate a complex, highly unionized, and centralized systen?"*

Whatever the reasons, the cur- rent situation leaves us with ‘the inefficiencies of a monopoly with a captive audience.’ Tunya con- cludes.

A voucher system, or some method of rebates, would provide a degree of parental control that is lacking right now. And to that end, EF think it is a great notion.

Indeed, |} think our public educational system, for all its self-conscious mystique of profes- sionalism, is, in fact, quite primitive, quite brutish, quite un- willing to seriously consider chang- ing the status quo.

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