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QUESTION: : Acomment on a flip, file olde. of another record. Re. smoking,

/ Pm oa non-smoker—the ‘only one in a family of five. . My comment is directed to

my husband's ever-conscle- . nttousness . regarding |

ru plete strangers and-his

pipe [i think handsomer when he’s smoke ing ttt] and he fs od ie ne of his; selection of.

expensive pipes ‘and a oe

- tobacco specially mixed for:

But, ho’ waite : ‘and: waits: San until everyone around him ‘in © a restaurant is ain ¢ least threugh their. m course before he lights up,then. ho hides the pipe in, the crook of:

Sincere |

beloag to my tathér, .

-A friend + whe * ‘fs into: °

stamps asa hebby ‘thinks it’s".

good find. A ‘sleezy.

anyting and yet he seeimed to -

want it, almost for’ ticthing

Xow cane

b acingteird he’ fs: not | rooked? Is:there a way ”

to Kew when Yon. have. had |

ralsal? ‘What

ae ee ee

‘e .

to. choose the results of |

} your choices.’? Will you give

_ a me .more on that? In

' aske.

He practical, down-to-carth ways i. what does it mean to me?

STEWART: Good ques-

tion. Here’s an. example of ‘what I mean. You are

“eat what you choose to eat, m Right?. BUT—if you choose . to eat mostly fattening foods, You’ can

e to

OT choose the. results of ‘that. programme. You cannot choose to eat a

reponderance of fattening

s and, while doing that, : demand the right to be the proud possessor of a fiat

‘tummy and a ‘‘great shape,’’

Another - example: You can

Throwing

| QUESTION:

What are you. -of? You never. come ht out and say, “Here's

ph you ought to "do." You. soom'to beat about the bush - ‘and throw everything back

into the lap of the person who hy u: the question, Are

you |

your counselling?

Tooke

made:

“yourself,

o that when you do .

ate

his elbow. 1 feel tints Is

stupid. If people want, to-go - . out in public, ‘then — they .

_ ghould not expect anyone to have a series of heart attacks because of their * Problems.

“Ws: an a “democratic

At least.a cigarette. in. the mouth shuts up a person: ‘who. “might “otherwise he |

conditioning—1 just . take the on cad a. eweater and onjoy and company. If you

can't otal ‘the.. pressure . of someone ° omoking-.-stay ‘home. I wish: that were my only preblem. Maybe

.peeplo bad more serious

problems, it wouldn't even:

occur.to them. to get excited --

~ valuable? $ ty, > me 1 sting :

‘have ‘the. answer. for -you.:

Carol and Dick have a stamp - ttle . store and.they are friends of. . dealer. says: it’s: not: not, worth:

‘mine. I would stake my total

wealth. ($22.75) on their. “peer y and. wouldn’t mind” t ‘giving ‘their ‘store a

“ab plug. Talk to C arol or Dick at

-the Acorn Philatelic: Enter- .

prises at 3 at 3799. East Hastings n. Burnaby: “Shooters. ol ty

Vat

"CHOOSE: to 5 be onerled AND

. td have four other lovers on - the aide. But: ‘you.can. NOT ‘choose the: results of that: ., Procedure. You cannot,. for

:, example, call'**foull’’ if your

wife is not tookeenabout your —

choice.. If. she hates your

_choice and threatens to walk

out, or to nag, or to get sick or to do the same sort of + thing you have: chogen to do,

‘her. actions'..or attitudes automatically become a re- . sult of your choice. You have ’ our. choice, but you | OT. made the ‘results *

have of. your cholce-your ‘wife:

made, you: then ‘have the

lvile f makin another . Pholcen-tig 8 ARE, FREE TO MAKE A

choice—-right away. It's’ as. though: you would ‘say: to

STEWART: No 1 am. not

‘Mike that. I’m much worse (in your woy’ of: thinking),, I’m

not like that. because I'm ‘scared though. In fact, I. only.

give direct advice when 1 AM:

scared! When 1 feel. pretty together I am atrong enoug not to give advice.

I think what I'm doing is

helping | poopie find them-

‘ ate

whe a wer ws Meet . eo "oe '

‘woe

_ Surgery would do well te stay ‘and ts more able to bo back ©

| Phe ne ; tun-and bing-along. Veu'va got | ; ve wif cad stayed enreery - : came early and be prepared | ¢ until I knew! could take the’. |" . to got involved. é “pace and it. worked out |- ee beautifully—just ‘to: ~ -gee - _ a people. again. I was most grateful.

teo..- ‘loose-lippedt ‘About''the. alr.

- STEWART: . " Handling the . ‘contest this week is Mrs. D..

if. iously as you do lets me feel ” - that you probably handle the

" think I love your

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will, more closely has. So, what happens then? :» Well, if ‘you. don’

t ‘like the. “results ‘of: that choice: you

Be won To, quote a

“That choice 1+ ; made: ‘has not’ brought the Now.”

it into, person’ s lap

ending on my weakness, I.

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