eed ttinties and. have: ‘been: _ involved with a man who is about, 40, We. shave: ‘several _ interests. in ‘common: and

have ; had some good times

; together’ over a period of six years. There fs no real: com- _ mitment, and yet we have.

just got: used to taking it. for

granted that we “belong” to each. other. Each of. .us see. other friends once in a while.’

We feel free to do that, and:

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‘want: to ‘have. a ‘live-in: or- a marriage | relationship. with’ ‘him. "We : have together” ona couple of oc- casions, once for two. weeks. and once for: ‘three months, Me and, of course, once in a_ while - for. week-ends: I am: ‘becoming less and. less in-.

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quite clear in your letter as to how you feel. So why not

‘show him this column and

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