MAD-ON FOR WOMEN

Why do they prefer their husbands?

QUESTION: I just want to do a little belly-aching rather than asking you a question. Ive got a mad on for women and thought Fd blow off some steam. P've been going around with a married woman who has been

separated from her husband for almost six months. ['ve been thinking she Is great. Everything has been {deal. Even though

we'd been

seeing each other only about three months we got as far as talking seriously about marriage when she is free to go that route. So you can see that both of us were pretty happy with each other. Then one morning she started off the day by telling me she didn't feel she was doing the right thing and that she

wanted to go back to her |

husband and make a new Start!

Even though her husband has been wanting her to come back, I can't see how a woman can talk marriage with me one day and decide to go back to her husband the next.

My gripe is about how un- dependable women are. You won't believe it, but this ts

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the third time that this sort of thing has happened to me! Three times (count ‘em) I've been having a great time with women who are separated from their husbands and _ they've suddenly decided to go back to what they had left. Women!

STEWART: What do you want of me? Do you want me

to do some theorizing about women in general, like you are doing? I'll go along with that just long enough to say that probably women in general are more “depen- dable” than you think they are and = probably much

My time ts special. My friends are special. So my rye 1s special.

smarter than you think they are.

How come you so often pursue separated women? Can it be that you consider a relationship with them safer for you? Perhaps you can enjoy them up to the point where something more permanent is talked about, and then you (consciously or subconsciously) see to it that they decide against con-

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tinuing the relauionship.

Do you subscribe to the theory that IT’S NOT WHETHER YOU WIN OR LOSE BUT... HOW YOU PLACE THE BLAME?

Perhaps you are almost ready to move toward a real

loving relationship. It need pot be nearly as frightening as you appear to think it is. You've had three lessons (at least) and it may be you can altow them to be learning experiences instead of poor- me experiences. It could be that you are not really a person with a “mad-on for women” but one with a mad- on for yourself. Why not be kinder to yourself and allow yourself the experience of loving? It works.

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