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Parents mav smother instead of shelter

es that only they can under- stand in the context of their Own perceptions,

Tnavariably, they are on their own io choose their path and we can only hope they will choose one that will bring them jov.

The best we can da is to probe their percepnions, give credence to their teclings, and maintain the relationship Necessary to try and help them see a fight at the end of cach dark tunnel they face.

— Graham Hookev is the author of Parenting Is A Team Sport. <ghoakev@vahas.conrs

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We can so positively influence our children, so shelter them trom the risks of the world, that nothing bad can ever

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