40 - Sunday, November (6, 1986 - North Shore News Lifestyles —___ PLAY ROLE IN GROWN-UP FASHIONS Stop grandparent rivairy immediately DEAR MISS MANNERS — Please tell me if we were right to be burt and angry over this situation. My son arrived at our house at 7 a.m. on Saturday, hud breakfast with us and went out with my hus- band in our truck to pick up a crib for our new granddaughter. They returned at 13:15. had stopped al her mother's house, just a few blocks away from theirs, and that’s where they still were. It's her mother's 10th grandchild, and we hadn’‘t even seen the baby up close atthe hosp:‘al. miss manners by Judith Martin My son teft the crib here and went to get his wife out of the hospital, checking out at noon. He said he would call us as soon as he got her back home, so we could take the crib to their house and see the new baby. We waited until 3 and there was no phone call, so we took the crib to their house and found out she We feel it was really bad man- ners to tet us sit and wait while she made sure her mother saw the baby, and angry words were ex- changed, What do you think, and what do we do now, with both sides angry? GENTLE READER — Miss Manners is not sure what the equivalent of sibling rivalry is ATTENTION CAT LOVERS How long can you make Dignity Cat litter last? Regular stirring makes the Difference. DIGNITY CAT LITTER _ Bosley's Pet Foods Mart 109-134 14th Avenue Nerth Vancouver West Vancouver SuperValu Store 500 L Lonsdsle Avenue ‘993 We: North Vancouver North Vancouver North Shore Pct Foods Supervale: Store. 1264 Marine Orive North Vancouver North Vancouver Woodward's Food Floor Patk Roya! Shopping Centre Riverstone Pet Supply Cove Pat Centre Ltd. 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