Wednesday, February t oe * - 47 Ly Caring for the caregivers AFTER FIVE years of constantly caring for a loved one with a dementia illness, it is not unusual for caregivers to die before their patients die. “Caregiving tends to take its toll, not on the ill person, but on the person who is giving the care,*’ said North Shore Health’s Dr. Nancy Hall during a Jan. 29 public forum on the subject. “What happens is you end up with two patients instead of oae,"* she said. No one really knows how many people are taking care of family members with Alzheimer's disease and dementia-related ilf!nesses such as Parkinson’s and strokes because family caregivers often do not ask for outside support. But according to the numbers of known family caregivers, 3/4 are women and 2/3 live with the person. they are caring for. “Family members are the major sources of support. It’s time we acknowledged that and do what we can to ma‘: things a little eas- ier,” said Hat. In an attempt to understand the problems facing family caregivers, North Shore Health recently con- ducted interviews with 62 Worth Shore people who give primary ‘care for a family member with dementia. The resulting report the following information: @ a caregiver’s average age was 62 (range 33-90), with the ill rela- tive’s age likely to exceed 79; @ about 60% of family caregivers provided 24-hour care; 13% received no help from anyone; the rest received the bulk of help from other family members; included By Anna Marie D'Angelo News Reporter @ the average caregiver was less healthy than the norm for people their age; @ bcthersome betiaviors such as the ill people doing embarrassing things or becoming unwilling to dress themselves created strong burdens for half the caregivers; @ caregivers are also bucdened by feeling they have no time for themselves and are stressed to meet other responsibilities. Another adult care speaker at the forum, consultant Moyra Jones, used a five-year Chicago study to follow the stages of prob- lems typical of some caregivers. The study noted that during the first year, the caregiver tends to become ‘‘superwoman’’ or *‘superman,” but by the second year this ‘‘super’’ person is ex- hausted and begins to take medication for sleep or stress problems. Medical doctors were criticized for not referring caregivers at this stage to community health sup- port services instead of just treating the caregivers’ symptoms. At three years, caregivers, who are often elderly themselves, become irritable and experience great stress. Jones said at this stage, elderly abuse may occur on both sides. By the fourth year, the SPECIAL NEWS photo Mike Wakefield APPROXIMATELY 40 people attended the public forum last week on caregiving to persons with dementia-relaied illnesses. caregiver feels unhealthy and shows symptoms of chronic fa- tigue and stress-related medicai probiems such as ulcers. At this stage, neighbors and other family members may notice caregivers cannot :nanage households. By year five, some caregivers WHITE GOOSE DOWN QUILTS 20% OF F are isolated and become passive, unable to ask for help; they con- tinue to be unwell. Support services available on the North Shore for family caregivers include adult daycare, home support (to heip with housekeeping) and home care (nursing help. in the home). Per- scnal counselling is currently be- ing set up for home caregivers. . . For more inforination call North Shore Health at 983-6710. Daniadown’s "Icelandic" quilt is on sale at special prices. You'll love the cuddly warmth and lightweight softness of your "Icelandic" quilt. The superb quality and generous white Goose Down fill ensures your warmth and years of satisfaction. Twin Double Queen King 27 oz. 32 oz. 36 oz. 42 oz. 180" 212 5248 %289% HiI-LOFT PILLOWS 20% OFF Queen King 4g 56" Sheers $495] incl. labour 8 colours to choose from it ill : Cont'l $63” Reg. $360 | il ! i alls today or drop into our showroom. | sere anes re. ae [IIL IL a a Announcing a new Decorating Service to sulf any budgel. Let me help you avoid oe we, 2 : . - a | “| an expensive decorating error. = Vancouver “f 7 fe Ai nc = on be Lane = a ” Ai: : Call todav! ao fepeonves * A Terina Aquec! - Richmon - - SHADE BETTER h i i 83982 d i Specializing in Blinds and Draperies for over 7 years 1877 Marine Dr., N. Van. 984-4101} #4-36918 Progress Way, Squamish 892-5857 Whistler 932-6617