that sack of succotash? __ Is . How do you. ‘ike are: going throught Or at in rinational Hotel {open Tuosdeys only] is for the QUESTION: A girl friend of mine showed me a letter she had got from her main guy. Neither of them live where they’ll see the North Shore News, so perhaps it will be O.K. for me to tell about one part of the letter. He was talking about his efforts to. ‘become .what he called “a whole ‘person’ and he sald, ‘J know -where [I’m at, but don’t know how to leave’’. That. really got to me. My friend wanted me _° to comment about the letter, but. r was at a loss for words *-A guy admire, by the name a - ls of Malcolm, said to; me ‘that - STE] TART: Iknow ‘what you, tendency ‘to cremate others Vago l had an affair. ‘Pven never hope you are’ going it; rather.- than gh: i ; settling back into it.) J too ~ icc fortably close to .* “On, thé shelf, out: of reach.” = “This, ‘Malcolm: Says, fixes ‘it a “so"we ;don’t: ever - have. to- listen to them.: I expect you of: non-reldting -, ‘You'say, : ‘they: -made:me'sick”’. They didn’t,. - you know: You chave- done .- that to. yourself.’ Don’t ‘give: oe ‘them . credit for: what YOU.’ have been doing to’ yourself!) so many’ people. have he’s: sweet and. 4 -wonderful husband ‘and. father, but Pm for. It’s really getting to me. . yt ‘because that’s EXACTLY ‘where I’m at. I think Pm pretty much “‘together’’, but I want to do an awful lot of growing. I know what I want to be like, but I’m darned If I know how to get-there. A lot of people must be hung up at this point. Could you com- «ment in your column? STEWART: I could, but I'd feel like a sap, commenting -in about ten lines about an earth-shaking question like -yours. However, 1 feel not too bad about weaseling out, ~—worthy sinner’, ¥OU are the— . couver, who was. 3 awarded: a you-are,; in-fact, an “‘untrust-—— Pasquale Patriz Oey, icone . - aniong 254° Neranted degrees of: ‘West "Vancouver, a_ B.Sc. and vase by the Univers: been’ Nonth Vans a Bachelor of a - Arts: degree. with a major in. ereative writing. ; Other — “area. - students 3 _ receiving. degrees from UVic - °° this fall are: Lawrence Almas.” ~ _ phone. 261-6242: for an qo Sheppard, of North ae is appointment. ot Pore tee . “. “ . ~ . m ar rn a4 1 Tbe ge > ‘one that can forgive yourself and make a whole new start in“relating lovingly to your- | on. the. Pl | self. 1f-you feel good about “do something ‘PI be ‘sorry ‘yourself and don’t have any expectations about how you want HIM to. perform, 1979 can be your best yeth becaus that’s one of the things I'm looking forward to talking about in our first . -EVENING WITH HAYDEN STEWART on January 21st at the International Plaza Hotel. Perhaps you will be able to come. And why not pring that girl you got the lett which shook you? 4That’s an unabashed plug for our meeting, but it is also an invitation to you to come, and share with me in a less constricted way column allows.) By LOIS LIGHT "One. of the most in- teresting titles on the new brochure will be “PREPARING FOR AN OFF-SHORE CRUISING VOYAGE”, given by Colin Hempsall. Hempsall knows whereof he speaks, for he spent a year cruising through the South Pacific--San Francisco to Hawaij, then to ; Samoa and Tonga and back. Hie did the cruising alone, with stops at the | islands including. one where he was joined . by” his wife. for a month. |" . we we 7 : on .” Slides of thia, ‘tip: will be ; the thread connecting the 10, ight school notes lectures of this course, and prospective voyagers or armchair travellers will learn about providing for this kind of trip, how to navigate, what emergencies to expect and how to deal with them. “It's the kind of course I wish I'd had before I went,” says Hempsall. He’s also giving a one-day workshop, a condensation of the longer course, on Saturday, Jan 13th. **SELF- “AWARENESS THROUGH OCCUETISM” will not sound at all strange to those’ who are interested ‘in mysticism in all its aspects. Instructor Mary _Kenny explains that the overall emphasis throughout this course will be positive thinking, and one’s own responsibility in mental and physical health. 6 Discussion will around = subjects reincarnation, astral bodies, centre karma, the different levels of meditation and the natural jaws through which we can consciousness, and its techniques understanding become whole, perceptive, and loving human beings. There will also be small forays into the world of mediumship and ESP, and the questions to ask in their connection. ‘ \ than the such as Ny ’ Private evate For Men and Women Open 7 days aweek Mon. to Fri. ° 10 am-1 Opm ° Sat. & Sun. . from 10 am-6 pm 6, A 986-5201 EUROPEAN SPA _ NORTH SHORE INT. PLAZA HOTEL MARINE DR.