pahesatetes Ever since I was” a:kid I've been developing | ¢he habit of: saying “to hell excluded them, and ‘now you. are not . Jiking- the -results.. . with « them”. about - and everyone. If - - person disagreed: with 1 me or stood in: my way, or asked . me for something, my: quick ~ . answer, somedmes. im - my. head and sometimes: wight. - out: loud, -was “to hell with . ‘ you". T was: into: that habit: years ago. Then along. came: that. popular phrase, “that’s - YOUR_ problem” and Pve- : “tried to be your own person o learning how to be your own Page 18, October 18, 1978 - North Shore News _ co proud of your - desire | to ‘be oo your own person. That's . good! But you can see the — manner in which. you have ‘has not worked. well. You have. alienated - others and. ‘The. exciting’ business of ~ ‘person and, at the same time learning how to accept other lies . people: as. they are,~ ‘ahead ‘for you. It has been — | - detrimental to you to’ say, - “get lost!” to everyone who Or... wants something from you: ; - disagrees with you or stands _ ‘in. your way, - ng to get _ Just added that to my way. of. There's a better way that will . | ak gas economy ofonly6.5 | . talking and. acting. A'couple . not be. .to you, and ° litres per 100 Kiiomemnas* eke » @f months ago I felt real fomely and when I began ‘to. think about it I had to admit © - to I really don’t have any” ‘real: friends. I. know | ‘ ES Ue a extra ‘for features that. / a “reason” ‘Pm such a loner fs _ | eet aoe pave gg ‘ , | : ‘ore stanciord ona 240. that “Tye been selling | ~ to the world in. general and “Freelance Counselior -ayden : everyone to getlost! some people in particular. . Stewart may be: reached at “Pve been doing that’ a iong You've. been saying, “To hell 261-6242 for appointments for a time: and I guess - what's oe happened is everyone . has » _ just taken me. at my word.” ‘That fs one stupid way: to. act, bat now, ‘what can I do. about it? . alone, and you don't like it... «"esidents. - : Wago _ | STEWART: Hang on to What will you do differently? _ as aa eS you want MOIS more me what you've been proud of in _ May I dump it back ‘in your ‘BEING. the “changes, you + meee - your way of relating to lap? Why not-start saying to: want to see happen. It will _ people, but walk ‘away from - _ what you have seen as being | ‘harmful to you .and your 7 happiness. You are Probably: | _ ; - > & ives 42 cubic feet re oH e S| ee ul a 9 yt — a _ = — ¢ — ve Corolla wagon. Parking a 2 : oo, or packing—you'e . QUESTION— ‘The letter of It must come as a shock to. ‘may-not assume that you are _ better off ina 210" concern from the young man women’s egos to discover ‘‘not a man’’ because you who has not had a ‘sexual relationship with a female by age 22, was of particular ' interest to me. .. inher. _ quote you “being a ‘different . . . rns : Lo, person, with a different I am 32 and have not had a STEWART: | ‘I like yout _ background, (her) ‘reasons sexual - relationship with a female.. ‘Being;‘a. different: with a. different . person, | ‘background, my reasons differ... _ 1 tk ie tae dey, ad $Ssexual Hberation’’ and ‘‘women’s liberation’’, a . will,. ‘moreover, contribute to _with you’ “That's” your ‘problem’ audiences . that: have “been hearing - your speeches are - est relationshi _ your being y your own person. . The getting smaller. and smaller “until now. you feel . ‘almost people the kinds of things - you like to have people say “to you? You'll have-to think | about: ‘thats. Then Start - that a man may not neces- sarily. be. interested in sex — when he declares : an interest. . comment ‘that because you are ‘‘a different person, with | a. different background”’, claim, we are obliged to offer » "Get lost’ — and individual, : counseliing. His new. Office An. the Plaza {cpen _ Tuesdays - only). ‘is for the = -- ‘convenience of North n Shore | . International ‘Hotel take ‘some ‘practice, but ‘it _ will’ be. fun seeing the ‘dif- — we “Good hoe “ference: it makes.” luck! ; é a . want friendship and. not necessarily sex. Remember, she is a; PERSON, and, to -differ’’ from those of ‘any other woman you. have ever | met. . your. reasons for. sexual | inactivity (or activity, I 7 assume) are different too. All | _ of us are able to make that claim. But. if we. make’.the — “Thank yoii, “however, for | putting the shoe on the other’ | foot for our ‘consideration. But please. don’t decide that. | : Out of your new. Pinto. But you will get it - a «with anew 240.Anda.-- “Pinto will make you pay family” Or. ‘Group a “you won't getit ina. ‘all ‘males’? will. for: female can decile for hercelf the position, to others too. you, or swear ieyon te Pasi yg when, where and with whom ’ she will have a sexual . relationship, but still feels a man is not a man if he docs not indulge. “If women are to become truly Hberated and expect men te become more sensi-' _ tive and respect thelr wishes, them they must not only liberate themselves from this regard is followed up by - several generalities about. *‘females’’ and ‘‘males’’. If, as you claim, ‘ to discover that a- man ‘may _not necessarily be interested in sex when he declares an interest in her’’, would you | ~ all ‘‘females’’ will. It is disappointing to me : that your healthy insight in. 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