QUESTION: You often bear

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spare the time from my busy
schedule to have a visit.

I went to see him and he 5s
sti on the same kick. He
says he 6 perfectly well and

STEWART: You may have
left something out of your
letter, or perhaps I just
didn’t follow you well
enough to understand why
you felt his life is being
wasted.

Of course you didn't tell us
what he means by “just

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Get away from it all

living”, but if it means what
Im guessing, he may very
well be one of the wisest
persons around.

I think, when he told you
he was “just living”, he was
saving himself the bother of
trying to justify to you what
he was doing with his life.
Has it ever occurred to. you
that he feels better “just
living” than he would have
felt at the

choose something better.

content and fulfilled. I feel
content and fulfilled. How
goes it with you?

Standing at the crossroads

QUESTION: Pm writing this
from out of town in the hope
that: when I retera in about
ten days, FA fied your
response in THE NEWS.

I got a month's sick leave
from work and came here to

rest and try to do some.

thinking about where I am
and where I'm heading. The
fase week of the month [i be
home again, bat will nos
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week is up. I seem to be ina
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keep away from them. I have
a lot of self-respect and self-
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the midst of a “problem” that
is struggling hard to become
an opportunity! Try to see
this dissatisaction and
unhappiness as the
restiveness of a woman who
is at an important’ cross-
roads. You are not satished
with what you feel to be a
semi-useless life”. Good for
you! Now 1s the time for
some creative choices. See
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verge of BECOMING. There
ts a dawning ahead for you.
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QUESTION: Some kinds of
people I loathe. And what's
wrong with that if I may-ask?

STEWART: Why do you
ask? Perhaps you are tired of
it and considering to get rid
of your loathing. It will be so
rewarding for you!

One little helpful hint:
there are no “kinds of
people”, there are only
people. That will make it
easier for you as you permit
yourself to replace your
bothersome loathing with
something you'll enjoy so
much more.

You don't deserve to be a
loather. Select a better tag
for yourself and live up to it!

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