AIDS Dr. Peter puts a human face on AIDS HERE WAS a time not long ago when T Peter wouldn‘t have felt welcome as a homosexual man walking into a North Vancouver church. By Elizabeth Collings News Reporter But last Saturday, Peter (who has AIDS and has requested that his last name not be published) did just that in order to talk openly to a North Shore au- dience about issues surrounding AIDS, homosexuality, death and dying. And, in an interview with the News, he says he felt very wel- come and very much included. “It’s a nice feeling,’’ Peter says, reflecting on his reception at Saint Martin's Anglican Church. In fact, the 33-year-old doc- tor, who graduated from a North Vancouver high school, was asked after the conference by four priests to speak to their congregations. Speaking to groups is some- thing that Peter is becoming ac- customed to. He and his cons- tant companion Harvey, a black lab seeing-eye dog, are gaining celebrity status as a result of Peter’s spots on CBC-TV’s even- ing news each Wednesday. Peter says he is often ap- proached by strangers who want to thank him for his personal on-air accounts of what it is like to have AIDS. He speaks to medical students, nurses, doctors, high school stu- dents and now, increasingly, the church, as it takes up the challenge of addressing AIDS at the community level. With this high profile, Peter has begun, for many, to repre- sent the human face of the disease. . He says that by giving people a “‘personal scenario” about AIDS, they are often provoked into thinking about ar issue they wouldn't normally consider or might object to on moral grounds. “It’s a matter of exposing people to people with AIDS and the variety of people who might be affected and the ever-increas- 5 EEE [AEE nlc 44 1 still think, to a large degree, they (the provincial government) still see it only as a threat to that hell-bound faction of society that includes homosexuals, drug addicts and prostitutes, and they figure the province would be better off without them anyway. 99 Teachers’ job From page 2 can’t drop our kids off early and pick them up early. ‘*The teachers can afford to do that because they go to work at 8:30 and quit at 3:30. lt doesn’t affect them. { think it’s complete- ly unfair.” NVSB chairman Marg Jessup agreed that parents are being hit 44 /n some cases you almost have to hit (parents) over the head with a hammer, and sometimes that hammer, sadly, comes in the form of one of their children coming home with AIDS. 99 ing numbers for whom it’s becoming a concern,’” he says. While many people have responded to Peter's message with deeper thoughts about AIDS, Peter says some people never get the message. ‘Inevitably you're going to Tun into people who are going to say ‘I know my kids and they’re not having sex,’ or, ‘I’m not sending my kid to a school that has condom-dispensing machines in the washrooms.’ It’s often difficult to make inroads with those people.” Peter says there are two things known about AIDS: it’s preven- table and, so far, it’s incurable. **We have to focus on the fact that it’s preventable and start educating people,’’ he says. But even if people agree that public education is needed, he says they often continue to resist it because they still think AIDS is a homosexual disease. Peter also says talking about AIDS involves taiking about sex, which some adults don’t like. “In order to discuss AIDS and in order to educate and prevent it, we’ve got to talk about sex, and we’ve got to talk about sex to those people who are not yet sexually active or who are just becoming sexually active, and that means kids and teenagers, and there’s a lot of people who are uncomfortable with doing that."” Peter says he doesn’t disagrec with people telling young adults to abstain from having sex, but he says young people should be given the facts about AIDS so they can make ‘‘wise choices."’ Unfortunately, those who deny the reality of their children’s sexuality may learn the hard way, he says. ‘*In some cases you almost have to hit the 1 over the head with a hamm-r, and sometimes that hammer, sadly, comes in the form of one of their children coming home with AIDS.” Education about AIDS is the responsibility of the provincial government, but it is a responsi- bility they are not taking on, Peter says. ““T still think, to a large degree, they still see it only as a threat to that hell-bound faction of society that includes homosexuals, drug addicts and Friday, January 18, 1991 - North Shore News - 3 NEWS photo Nell Lucente PETER TELLS his story Saturday to an audience of 125 at Saint Martin's Anglican Church in North Vancouver. The 33- year-old doctor, who has AIDS, is encouraging the church community to become involved in the battle against the in- curable disease. AIDS on the North Shore THE NUMBER of AIDS cases on the North Shore is climbing. Provincial statistics reveal: © The North Shore has 35 known AIDS cases to date; © Between February and September of 1990 the number of North Shore AIDS cases jumped from 23 to 35; * A total of 36 new cases of HIV (the virus that causes AIDS) posi- tive have been tested on the North Shore in 1989 and 1990; @ In 1989, 22 out of 1,127 tests on the North Shore were HIV posi- tive; in 1990, 14 people on the North Shore tested HIV positive out of 1,213 tests; 2 The North Shore has the second highest number of AIDS cases in the Lower Mainland and the third highest in the province; ¢ There are no out-patient clinics for AIDS patients on the North Shore; © There are no support groups for AIDS patients and their families on the North Shore. A, prostitutes, and they figure the province would be better off without them anyway.”’ The provincial government’s attitude, he says, forces churches and community groups to ad- dress the problem. At the conference, Peter says he challenged the audience to embrace the concept of in- clusiveness. a basic tenet of Christianity. He admits that when he was younger he rejected the church almost before it could reject him. “By the time | was confirmed in the church I pretty well knew where I] was atin terms of my sexuality and basically didn’t want to be faced with this nega- tive — how can I put this — be- action hits parents hardest hard by the teachers’ job action. She said she was surprised the action was legal. “Tt is very hard on parents, there's no question about that. We're surprised that while talks are still going on that they're tak- ing any kind of action,’ said Jessup. ‘*ht's surprised us, and there’s not a thing we can do about tt.”’ She added that the board was “‘working as hard as we can’’ to negotitate a collective agreement with the union, Meanwhile, contract talks are continuing between the West Van- couver District 45 School Board and the 300-member West Vun- couver Teachers’ Association. ing toid who | was was wrong or sinful. It’s kind of: ‘I'm getting the impression I'm being rejected so [*m rejecting you.’ I think that’s very common.”* Since then, Peter has become friends with Rev. Neil Gray, the former chaplain at St. Paul’s Hospital. “Tnitially [ thought he was a bit of an anomaly — it was sim- ply the circumstances of working at St. Paul’s Hospital that got him involved in this.... But I think the fact that the church took the trouble to organize this (Saturday's) conference says a lot and shows that they're work- ing to increase they’re under- standing and involvement. [t's great."” Anglican forum targets AIDS in the community ETER, A former North Vancouver resident, AIDS vic- tim and the subject of a popular CBC-TV news series, was the keynote speaker at an AIDS con- ference held last Saturday on the North Shore. By Anna Marie D’Angelo Contributing Writer The 33-year-old doctor has become widely known for his “diary” instalments about the impact of AIDS on his day-to- day life shown regularly on CBC-TV news. He graduated from a high school in North Vancouver and now resides in Vancouver. Peter, who recently became blind because of the disease, spoke to approximately 125 people taking part in the one-day Aids in Our Comniunity con- ference held at St. Martin’s An- glican Church in North Van- couver. The church and The Stewards in Action Program of the Diocese of New Westminster sponsored the event, which in- cluded sessions on spiritual issues, death and dying and the costs of AIDS. Conference organizer Rev. John Bailey said the event was held, in part, because of the wrong assumption that someone else was handling religious ministry to AIDS victims. Bailey also wanted to put a “human face on AIDS.” Peter discovered he had AIDS in 1986, two months after he started a medical career that had involved nine years of university. He said his parents, who live on the North Shore, did not know he was gay, and when they found out about the fatal disease along with his homosexuality, iz came as a ‘‘double whammy.”’ During Peter’s one-hour tatk, which was broken up with occa- sional laughter and applause from the audience, the doctor discussed the need to tell young people about ‘‘safer sex’’ (con- dom use) in hopes they make wise decisions before establishing sexual patterns. “AIDS is preventable and | AIDS is not curable. The one thing to do is educate, educate, educate — that’s three things to do,”” he said. Health economist David Schreck said there are 400 active AIDS cases in B.C., and he said that statistics showed AIDS is not a cost threat to the health- care system. The North Shore has 35 known cases of AIDS, the third highest total in B.C. “It may be a cost threat 55 years from now if we don't face a moral challenge and try te prevent AIDS,” said Schreck. index @ Home & Garden @ Mailbox @ Paul St. Pierre @ What's Going On Weather Friday, cloudy with chance of showers. Saturday, cloudy with sunny periods. Low, 0°C: high, 6°C. Second Class Registration Number 3885 @ Automotives........... 21 @ Classified Ads @ Ecolnfo