C7 - Sunday, January 9, 1983 - North Shore News

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Pay up—you owe it to you

“QUESTION: T owed some
money to someone and was
supposed to pay it back in
three equal installments. |
paid the first (a little late)
and then got a month behind

QUESTION: I have a minor
problem I'm not handling
very well and hope you will
comment. I don't know how
to handle people who come
to my door to promote their
religious philosophy. If ['m
nice [Tm hooked for a long
presentation. If Pm just a
little nice, it takes time to
escape. If I'm nasty, I don't
feel good about it. So what's
to do.

STEWART: Be gracious but

‘ou the second payment. t
don’t know quite what
happened to me, but I just
put off making that second
payment. I always intended
to, but didn't. Then I began

ask hayden stewart

Freelance Counsellor Hayden Stewart may be reached at 261-6242
for appointments for individual, family or group counselling.

A years now since Fve heard.
from him. So, I'm just
forgetting it. I feel perfectly
O.K. about it, what with him
not geating after me and not
needing it anyway. What do
you think?

some money....” Well, have
you paid it? Do you sull owe

it? Yes, or no, the answer

The fellow I owed phone
me once, but then I guess he
decided to ignore it too. (He
sure doesn’t NEED it.) Well,

anyway, it has been over two

will have to come from you.

STEWART: If you, in fact,
are “forgetting it” and “feel
perfectly O.K. about it,”
what are you writing me for?
I hope my hunch is correct.
I'll bet you don't “feel
perfectly O.K.” about it at
all. lrather sense you feel a
cheater. You say, “I owed

door and wishing them a
good day.

I am assuming of course,
that you are aware of the
real reasons why you do not
hear them out. Make sure
you are satisfied with those
reasons.

Loafing

QUESTION: What did you
do on your three month

 firm:-Fell the-caller you-are — sabbatical? — —- —_

not interested because you
have your own interests.
Then start the motion of
door closing, politely. If
your callers hang on and
want to continue talking,
you then may be even more
firm, remembenng to keep
your cool while closing the

in.

IN

STEWART: Loafed, carried
on with my counselling, got
ahead a bit on some
columns, etc. But. most of
the time was spent in
wondering why il was that
the time when I was to start
again was coming at me with
such unbelievable speed!

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