20 - Sunday, August 20, 1989 - North Shore News Help’s at hand | HELP’S AT Hand, a weekly feature by the North Shore Infor- mation and Volunteer Centre, an- Swers questions about and Gi such topics as govern- ment policies and programs, benefits, consumer and legal rights, taxation and public ser- vices. Question: I am a 66-year-old retired woraan. My neighbor’s son works nights 2s a waiter and dar- the day ke practises his drums. He oftez docs this while I’m wat- ching my favorite efternoon pro- grams. I have spokez to his mother about it, bat his thoughtless behavior has not changed. Could a mediator tell him to stop? Answer: If you contact a media- tion service, the coordinator will call your neighbor, relate your concems and suggest that the two of you meet in a mediation session. The coordinator will explain the benefits in finding a resolution to this problem so that both house- holds can live comfortably as neighbors. Through careful listening and questioning the mediator will assist you and your neighbor to find ways to solve your problem. Mediation ensures that each per- son’s needs are met, and enables them to live in harmony with one another. Question: Six months ago my Va! | - vs ALL MAKE, wife and I hired a photographer to take our wedding pictures. At his request, we made a deposit of. $500. , When we saw the proofs we were dissatisfied with his work. We do not want to pay the rest of his fee of $750. He refases to give us any of the pictures unless we pay the full amouat. Can mediation help in 2 case like this? Answer: You don’t have your pictures and the photographer doesn’t have his money. This is the kind of situation where mediation works well. A skilled mediator, who is a neutral third party, will ensure that each of you gets an equal chance to present your concerns and be heard by the other. The mediator will then help you find a solution that is agreeable to both of you. Information published in this column is intended only as a gen- eral guide and should not be ap- plied to specific cases without fur- ther consultation. This article was provided by Westcoast Mediation Services, 985-7138. DISCOVER Westcoast Media- tion Services at the North Shore Information and Volunteer Centre at 1060 Roosevelt Cres., North Vancouver, V7P 1M3. This col- umn is prepared with financial assistance from the Notary Foun-° dation. ALL MODEL SERVICE DEPT. Specializing in AMC past models plus Chrysler Jeep Eagle current models © Renault © Concord © Jeep Cherokee ° Alliance Renault RS . 0 Y.J.’S © Pacers © Pioneer ° Eagles Plus all other makes, mcedels and light body 980-3431 Vancouver's #1 Chrysler Jeep Eagle Parts & Service Centre trucks CHRYSLER SNe See Care Hours: Mon.-Fri., 8:00am-5:30pm = LESSEESEe : * tims (mostly males) were im- The (Canadian Red Cross Society MYT « Most drown- sings occur when people are swimming. FAC s Over 60% of 2 all drownings occur when the victim falls in- to the water unexpectediy: from a wharf, shoreline or boat. Autopsies have shown that over one-third of these vic- paired by alcchol. Buy any Reitle Greek two-piece outfit... and we'll take care of Free with purchase of an outfit, exclusive Kettle Greek canvas laundry bag* Now until September 5 “while quantities last - sale items not included 2ND FLOOR LONSDALE QUAY, NORTH VANCOUVER 984-2230 starts with freshness ~ . F that makes your eyes pop, your mouth water, your 1 stomach cheer! Veggies at their poultry, leanest meats, luscious fishes... - ° & A fresh experience today and every { day, at the Market that’s more! = Open 7 days a week, 9:30 am to 6:30 pm. . S Thursday and Friday ’til 9:00 p.m. Restaurants open lateriag ‘NX