pe
mail that is clearly
to. met His. action

y = breaking a law. If
‘there is no such law against
the invasion of private mail .
there ought to be. Of cou
it is not on the basis. f law
that I would like him to ‘give
up his sticoping. I love him
and trust him ‘and he. loves
. me.and says he: trusts me.

. But this action.of his: makes. 1

‘me feel: that he: does. not trust

needs to snoop on me to
discover something or other
that is worrying ‘him. To this
~ theory” of ‘maine, he’ ‘simply
“says, ="

really feel he “should, NOT
ever read my mail, without
my perfaission. H He. inst says,

You - can leave him.
you can threaten to leave if
‘he ever does it again.-Or you
can “get even” with him by
doing something le hates
you to do. Or you can gather
better arguments in support

of your cause and more.

skilful ways to present them.
Or you: can. refuse to cook,
or make love, or work, or

7 ‘without my permission, ‘but -:
Or -

instead of fighting with you
over a pet theory I have, I
have decided to offer you,
here’ and ‘now, my ‘per-
mission for you to read my
maikany time. you: want to do
so.” ~

I like. your’ “theory. “(My
mail is MY. mail and anyone

with ‘Tay permission).
However, you do not live in”,

tp ey
_- : ta

a theory. You live in a love
relationship ‘with your man.

Give-more attention-toyour ~

opportunities where you. live
and less attention to your
problems “ where ' you

sarees

“

whatever..OR, you can.say -
' to him, “Our: friendship and ©
love and happy times are
being threatened by my
insistence on ‘standing™ my
_ ground about a theory that
has always been important to
me’ but-is not ‘important. to
you, Tye. told you*lots of
times | Tan not adverse to you
seeing what is in my-mail. I
still ‘don’t like your doing it

Fr may !
for appointments for individual, family’ or group ‘counselling. His
Office in the International Plaza Hotel ( pen Tuesda, Lys only) for the
convenience of North Shore residents. : ;

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= ) - ae Sidewalk:Sale -
Ge . " Saturday; Sune’ 27th

thai I was. ‘He . iooked
stunned for a minute, then

QUESTION: -: him plus 1 am a little bit
In the four y years we have mousey anyway and always
been married; J-have been --have been. Well,..anyway,
pretty mousey with | my what I want to tell you and
husband. He knows : about is about
- that  amppenca

oftener. The point is you
KNOW... you've got the
strength to stand up and be =
counted. And HE knows it. ;
Do it when, you know it ‘is

“Golly I'm_proud: of ‘you. I

; honestly ‘didn't, think you had

"ft in’ you!” In‘ the minute I
was blasting him, I felt good.
And~ then when he was
telling me. he was proud of

‘me I felt better still. It was
great. But should I keep it
up? Should I blast him more
often?

: STEWART:
~ “Down” girl! ‘Don't decide
ahead: ‘of time to “blast him”

@ mouse, but sy xe are “The

Mouse that Roared” and

pounds more than me everyone felt good about it!
while I'm apes 4 ft. 11, he’ -
that I elt very very strongly
had not paid any
ttention -to my viewpoint
and: was. all for just going
‘head: with his. Well: I
> myself . with the

him

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