LATELY I’ve had a number of calls from people who have never travelled before and who are considering taking a big trip with a friend or fam- ily member (such as a cousin) that they have never shared accommodation with. Aaturally, when spending Gig bucks on a major holi- day we want the trip te be as free of war games as possi- ble. Here are some things to consider when chudsing a travel partner: . Is this person relatively good natured? A grouch you don’t need. a . Is his level of tolerance fairly high? If he gripes and complains over small things at home he’s the wrong per- son to share the inevitable screw-ups in Lisbon. Adapt- ability is the key word. . Is he reasonably healthy? Not that there’s any guaran- tees that a Sylvester S. won’t drop dead tomorrow but a travel companion with ter- minal asthma, ‘fallen arches, ‘a bad back-and kidney pro- ‘blems can be more trouble than a rubber crutch. SIMILAR TASTES . Do you have similar tastes in food, drink, smoking and fiving habits? Don’t be like a friend of mine who found herself in Manchester with a confirmed lush who started the day with a belt of vodka and never looked back. “Worse, they were spending “some time with my friend’s - relatives and Lushwell tossed . Just because you're travelling together, you haven’t become Siamese twins. Make a habit of going it alone from time to time — travel-wise his empties in the coal chute. . Can you agree easily on an itinerary that pleases both of you? If you start arguing be- fore you leave you may end up wishing you'd stayed home. Level with your intended companion. if you snore, don’t leave him to find out in Milan.° : If your idea of a good night’s sleep is 15 chapters of War and Peace followed by a brief nap, give him a break. But, as one lady said, **You’ve just described my husband. Is it any wonder I’m leaving him at home?’’ eee O.K., you and your com- panion. have made the deci- sion, cemented your plans and paid your deposits. Here are a few hints that may make the whole thing work. . Pay as much as you can up front, splitting costs neatly down the middle. . Once you've arrived at your destination, set up a “kitty”? — a separate purse that both refill each day with an approximation of the day’s tab for meals, cabs, sightseeing tours and tips: Take turns holding the kitty and paying the expenses. -by Barbara McCreadie “‘Hey, I'd like to spend the morning at the hairdresser. Why don’t you do ----?" Absence honestly makes the heart yrow fonder — especially in Buenos Ajzes! _ At least you'll have some new experiences to discuss at dinner. BE WARY . Be a bit wary of pick-up companions. It’s for sure you’re going to meet other people travelling in the same direction. You may find Gottleib and his wife Grizella perfectly charming but if your companion would sooner have a case of dysentery, wave bye-bye to G. and G. But, if your com- panion finds everyone you meet disturbing you might be advised to wave bye-bye at ‘Old Jealousy’’. -Always, always, ALWAYS! Have enough money with you that you can split. It may never happen — and the odds are against it — but if you must, go your own way. One girl I met found that her travel com- panion had a yen for members of the same sex, especially little boys. To her horror she'd return from the beach and find a strange kid “4 tennis, Period. back. backhand. We both. had a good ‘T went there ‘T didn't want to do anything more than play You know, I thought Iwas good till got on the court. There was some stiff competition from this guy from France, in particular. Getting beat Jive straight. games is embarrassing. So [ talked to one of the tennis pros there. He said he'd been watching me and could show me afew things. It helped. infact, my game could probably be sharper if [ hadn'tgot sidetracked into windsurfing. Not to mention the scuba diving lessons. Probably cost me a fortune to keep this up now that I'm Anyitay, the day I'm leaving Irun into this French guy again. He said i was too bad [was leaving. He'd like one quick game. Guess what? Beat him. Told him there were plenty of tennis pros on handivho could improve his Club Med laugh over that.” Doing what comes Naturally. So come. Free yourself. Be yourself, And have the time af your life. Your Club Med all-inclusive va ! ation provides your airfare and village entertainment and all the sports activities you desire with qualified personal inatsuction. Travelling with a friend isn’t always a holiday (wearing her perfume and makeup) in her bed. Once was enough — she threw out the makeup, the kid and the companion and considered herself lucky (one call to her bank took up the slack). GAME PLAN . If you and your compa- nion should have the bad luck to lose each other, have a game plan. Onc of the best is to return te ihe last place you wer: together. Another good ont is to call home toa friend or iciative and say, **Pve lost Joe. He’ll be call- ing you and tell him that I’m in the ----Hotel”’ If he never shows up you may assume that you’ve missed some- thing in the relationship. . Agree to keep your shopp- ing to a minimum — or be fully responsible for your own packages. There is nothing more infuriating than having to (a) stand around while your compa- nion buys half of Naples and (b) find that he can’t carry the load and your suitcase is _ bulging with his souveniers. Just ask me! Between my husband and my kids — all religious shoppers — I’ve had more merchandise piled in my case and in my purse than I’d ever give to the Sal- ly Ann. For the record: } hate shopping! If all else fails — remember, this is a few week's vacation. Be grateful it isn’t a life sentence. 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