4— Wednesday, April 1, 1987 - North Shore News Bob Hunter @ strictly personal @ MORE THAN a hundred people showed up for the me- morial service on North Pender Island. It was a grey, gloomy day. We watched the clouds rolling about. And we waited for a Sign. It seemed just last summer we were celebrating his 40th birthday and now he’s gone. It was actual- | ly two summers ago, but you know how time tends to blur after a while. I’ve got a bit of him captured on video tape from that party. He had a lovely gentle smile, self-deprecating, you might say, but F don’t think he was ever just mocking himself. He was good at mocking life. Not bitterly. Just - realistically. With a sense of humor.. 1 found it hard to take myself f too seriously when he was around. He had a way of taking things in his stride, absorbing the f energy around him and transforming it into something useful. | Above all, he had perspective, and he could share it quietly, without having to grab the stage. A person who can help you keep your ‘sense of perspective is a valuable person indeed. - I can’t honestly say I ever heard him putting anyone down, complaining behind anyone’s back, saying anything cruel about anyone. I wish I could say that about myself, but I ‘can’t. I refer to a sailor and film- maker and craftsman and farmer named‘ Karl Begrich, who died a couple ‘of weekends ago while playing badminton in Victoria. He was in some kind of competi- tion, 'At a certain. point, as though a finger had been snap- ped, he was gone. He was a tall, soft, blonde, blue-eyed Bavarian who didn’t smoke and who drank with great moderation but wasn’t abstinent. He had been known to get into the schnapps with gusto. He’d made several films about sailing. Well, not just about sail- ing. They were about being free and being young and having the skill and the fearlessness to head out on the ocean. He had a fabulous eye. “In the last few years, he made short films about Clam Bay Farm, the huge bio-dynamic agricultural operation that he managed for North Shore News publisher Peter Speck. We got to see these films every year around Christmas time. Each one was better than the last. He also did films about the annual North Shore News sailboat race, ‘ : There was humor in them, lots of movement and color, lots of _ beauty. He caught the ballet and the whimsy of it all. As an artist, Karl was just. coming into his own. I knew Karl for seven years. Worked on scripts for film pro- jects with him. And spent more * than a few fine days and nights at Clam Bay, watching, sometimes helping a bit, as the farm grew and changed. Buildings . were erected —- all of them with a peculiarly alpine charm. Karl's *rademark in wood. When someone goes so quick- ly, and just as they are ap- proaching their prime, like Karl, there is a shock wave. Here was a guy who was so vibrant and alive, an athlete and artist, miss- ing nothing that was going on around him. It seemed like a crushing, malevolent blow that he should be knocked off like that. He kept showing up in my dreams for about a week after- wards. Maybe not surprisingly, these dreams came in the form of movies. Movies starring Karl. And in these movies he was talk- ing to me. Each time I awoke, it felt as though he had really been there. I was overwhelmed by a feeling that he hadn’t wanted to die and that his spirit was still casting about, as shocked and confused by what sad happened as the friends he left behind. So at the memorial service, | was hoping, like a lot of other people, that there would be some shred of evidence, some Sign, that Karl’s soul had either moved on or at least found -peace, whatever a soul does after it leaves your body for good. The service started promptly at 2 p.m. on-a field that Karl had tilled. There was an eagle drifting in slow circles overhead, but that was just natural. By my watch, the first full blazing ray of golden sun fell upon those of us gathered there. |’ precisely two, minutes after the service began, like a switch being thrown. From grey we were plunged into a wonderful clarity. And the rest of the day was- perfect light and perfect warmth. We went down to the ocean and Karl’s ashes were spread on the water, along with flowers, and finally I found I could really cry. Thank you, Karl, for. that Sign. It was as beautiful and true ign as 1 have ever seen, and | was able to go home feeling that even a death as bitterly untimely as yours, had to have meaning. n Shore's Laroest Goxtien Centers! “NORTH VAN. 1343 LYNN VALLEY RD. y 985-1784 WEST VAN. 2558 HAYWOOD AVE. 922-2613. ‘millimetre size, Creek contract tenders called TENDERS have been called, re- turnable April 2, for a gravel crushing contract in the North Vancouver Highways District. 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