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ing to hang on to my best self
through a messy”

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Sure that what you want is to:
live up to your best self, not

‘poise and: ‘not to. fall into
bitterness’ and small-bore

‘but a lot of things have been ”
said and done that J was not

expec and. I've com-
awfully close to deserting my
plan oF procedure and acting

like a nasty person, How do I
__keep my cool and not make.

~varrass of myself ‘before: -those——tifully-forgiving-and-is-always-——

people?’

STEWART: You are already -

‘simply by wanting, to do well.
the “wanting” is a more.

powerful ally than you think.

It becomes’ even more
powerful when you’ make

_

just make a good impression
on the observers, official and .
otherwise.

I have a lot of confidence
in the dynamics of saying
“yes” to your best self. Keep

elp Pm try-.

eae nase mayest

When it. is all over and you

will have divorced your hus-
band;

at Jeast you will not.

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self. By the way, even if you |
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your higher self in the way.

you don’t want to, keep in |

mind that it is véry very hard
to do anything to your higher
self that becomes terminally .
‘divisive.

Your. higher self is beau-

ready fora new start with

you. Remember that choice -

is the life process and that in
every new moment of aware-
ness, you are free to make a

down your higher self,:
quickly opt for a new start
‘immediately renew your™
loviiig relationship with the
authentic: resident of your
being. Don't_wastew-tot-o
time and energy moping —
around feeling ashamed and
‘guilty. Get on with a brand
new love-affair with your

---Higher-Self,-Be-a part of the.-—--.

PROCESS of creative living,
not just a PRODUCT of your
emperery unawareness. "

| Tipping fora-

cup of coffee?”

~- QUESTION: -Am-l expected

to leave a tip for the waitress
at a huffet dinner or
smorgasbord, where I do all
the work and all the waltress
does is bring me the coffee?

STEWART: In theory, a tip
is to express your gratitude
for good service. Ifyou don’ t

wee

you will need td decide
whether there is some other
reason to leave a gratuity.

Please ~ no more questions
on etiquette. Lam no expert,
and besides, that is not quite
in line with the purposes of
the column.

“it it up. You'll come through. oo

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