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"QUESTION: The term
“single x parent’? bothers me.
lé doesn’t tell me enough.

For example, the other day.
when I-was talking on the
phone to «woman f. do not

iknow [on business), she sald

to me “2 am. a single .

- ‘parent’’, ‘Well, . that couid

mean she is a widow, or

_ divorced, or separated. Or it
could mean she had had a

child out of wedlock. And if.
she had- a child. out of
wedlock, that could mean she

so-called. ‘free person’’,

- infantuation.

AI yee es apa oo Sa at

-am 13 years cld and have a

_ problem about this boy called
: ‘eevccecensee™ Ble fis. 16 years old. -

and bas a split personality.

‘have Imown him: for two.
months now. and: f know and -
heard ‘that. all the

" around him want to keep him‘

thomselves, I mesriy

mever get to see him because '

:  ffawe:

. he has always gone out. And»

when I do get him he fs in a

other over town sometimes. I
love him a lot and I don’t

‘know what to do and I don’t |

‘want to break up with. him.
_ Please tell me what to do.

STEWART: A heavy infat-°
uation that is not working out

is a pretty hard thing to

handle isn’t it. And don’t let
anyone tell you. -that ‘‘it’s’
just _ ane i An
§ mever JUST = an
infatuation. it is a REAL
“-You’ve only
known. him for two months

a

If she’s been: raped, I'd like ©
to be helpful. if she’sa whore
Ne .

or 8° “awomam’?,.

wouldn't’ "have my. ‘trouble - gather. than. as divorcees. or _
‘whores « ot widows. They, like #f
\ you, are first of all PERSONS —

_who-would never need to
identify . themselves.

. fully if it were not for their

deciding I don’t want to have
anything to do with her. So,

when she says, “i'm a single -

parent’’, 1 don’t. ‘Rave: amy.

way of knowing what my’
attitude should be toward —
‘her. She might be OK or she |
might be awful. How can I

decide about my. attitude

when such a'stapid term as .
i Slngle-parent?’ Is alll I have.
had been raped, or ‘it could:
.fnean she fs a whore or a —

to go by?

(Woman's lib language]. It

isn’t that -I want to know all
about her personal matters,
but how can I know what sort
of attitude I should have.
toward her? |

~ If she’s a widow, I'd: feel
sorry for. her, if she’s.
divorced, ‘Td know. she was a
failure [at lenst in marringe].

QUESTION: I received a
curlous paper’ from - the
headquarters of the religtous
denomination I have been a
member of since 1932. It was
from’ the officlal peace |

. commission of the denomina-
tion and started. off by
ashing, “Did you know our
church has been traditionally

a peaceloving group. through-—

out its history?” ‘Then, as
though to prove that, the

article quoted some of our.

ploneers who sald, 175 or 180
years ago, that war was not
in the Christian spirit. And
the article suggested to mie
that because of the tradition: |
al stanco of the brotherhood
of which I am a member, tL
too, should oppose % war. |.

‘Ho: wash! Iwasa member
of that denomination through |

"STEWART: I can see why
it would the hard*for you.
Perhaps you can learn to
receive people simply as
human beings rather than as

raped human... beings of

_ woman's lib. human beings or .

divorced human beings. It

_would be alot easier on you,
(and certainly 0 on the human.

on

‘tho. first and: second World
Wars and it.was just as much
into the. war: as anyone/! I

had a heck of a thne getting

support and even courteous.

fellowship during my: years
of active pacifism. I too

believe that: Christianity, in-
reality and in depth, is made |

up of the stuff of peace and
love. But I don’t belleve our

. denomination acted like’ It.

and should not claim to have

done ao. Daring war-time I°
attended the Quakers meet:
ings and felt like I was”
joyously ‘accopted. I resent)
‘my denomination. claiming to.
‘be In the came league as the
Quakers as far as thelr
attitude’ towards. war and

thelr manifestation of peace.
Our : dence on ;

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" QUESTION: Hello and Hit ini

, other | girls are not. much >
-He sometimes goes for help

: shout his problems. Well, 1 YOU want to:‘‘keep him”

“just for yourself? It looks to.
- me like it is not going - to.work

. good time with your other
friends - fellows and girls.

_ He lives so far away and he
bad mood. He lives very far

‘from me but we see each —

his bad moods etc. Now no
-he’s not for you and as long

_ time, you'll miss having a lot
of fun that is just waiting

Write him off and start living |
‘happily. If he comes around,

_ his problem. But if you sit_

_,you learned to..receive. them

too: important - altogether in |
. people: like yourself. Would |
you feel comfortable saying 54.
. to the-woman'on the ‘phone, “ff |
_ 4 What, exactly do,you mean. f
whet: you say, ‘I.am a single

are divorced or separated or

bit out of line? I hope so. So
perhaps’

mind.

Follow: your own nig t a -

- church. I know how you feel. ;

ing’ of.a group may make it

certain ‘Hine of conviction. Be.

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though: and if you look back,
things were probably going |
along pretty well before he:
came on the scene. Those.

different than you. Don’t.

that way. So it seems the |
best thing for you to do is to

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wants to go out with other
girls, so perhaps he’s trying
to tell_you something, with

moping! If he’s not for you:

as you think of him all the

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available, leasina oac

Dependability, ~ Endurance,

and wait for him, or even try
to track him down and nail
him, then that’s YOUR

problem!

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regarding peace. Following
“your light will be a joy to you”
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