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our family business and “do
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money ahead. We think
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do you say? |
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: wise. If she feels it is too

soon to enter into something
big. it probably is. She could
“waste a year by following
your plan when her -heart

isn't. in. it. When a person:

follows her owir plan, she-is

_far-less-likely to blow it than -

she: would be if she were to

‘ follow someone: else's plan

that she’s not sold on. Back
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who are’ like that. I: seem to

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in. myself and I Uke ‘ft: in.
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much imaginative’
‘thinkers and .

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you. developed | a little: pride
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ee | have paid taxes for 3 years ‘

~ - and. am_ very” grateful that.
some -of the. ‘money I have
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who need welfare. You h ave
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~ you helped make it available. —.
-: I'm peeved at the people who
“rip off the’ system. and make: |.
people like you too: proud‘to
ake the risk of being thought —_
‘sof: as one of. them. Hang in. —
"there: friend! Keep trying for:
“work, but: see. yourself -

” accepting “the: “welfare you.
-and 1 ‘have worked hard. to
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They | tend 1 to “lige | up” ’ and
“get involved” in movements eres
- that are the current thing to° |
be allied with. This-bothers _
me. How can I:be free and: .

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radical, without feeling that.
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"STEWART:

‘Hurrah: for ‘you! You << .

ee “world: ‘needs. a ‘lot of. people _
_-who: are. mot. stuck ims
tradition; and. yet havea
“sense: of values. that Saves: By
-them..from being merely,
chic radicals.. These people _.
-” whose. radical marching song.
: is “Let's be different, like
everyone else”. bother- me...

‘tod. You are so right! We.
don’t need radical sheep. Ws
need courageous,
_ imaginative people who will
- dare to BE the change they
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Tam. very restive and

: the vegan stiches that any,

‘TTVE FOUND IT’, but at the
same time I'd like to he able
‘to say it - as long as I didn’t

- have to be. religious. What

can you tell me (without

talking about God . and.

“quoting ‘scripture) that will |

a -

help. me get: started on
finding a new life?

STEWART:
In 25 words or less?

Tell you what I'll do. Vu
‘quote from a current book
‘that is about as far, from —
‘scriptures as you'll et. Erica.
Jong says, in ‘HOW TO.
SAVE YOUR OWN LIFE’,
seven steps should be taken, |
Are you ready for: this?

t ‘Renounce useless guilt
2..Don’t make a cult: of
suffering
(3. Live in the Now (or at’
leust the Soon) |

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5, Trust all joy.
6. If the evil eye fixes you

. in its gaze, look elsewhere.

7. Get ready to be 87.

There you go. Think about
that list, lifted out of context.
from an erotic best seller. It
does not mention God, ‘nor

does it quote scripture, SO

you are safe i in studying it!

A friendly warning
however, in actual fact, a is
ist
of suggestions. If you do not.

want anything to do’ with
:religion - better leave’ it

alone. But I’m ribbing you:a.
bit. ‘What. you: don't like
about religion, I probably
don’t ‘like, either. However,

whatever itis you seem tobe °° :
- hungering «for ' is ptobably |

good stuff. Go ofter it mon.
Save your own life and then
you'll, probabl not mind

‘realizing that you got help”

along the way,’ religious or

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