Friday, July 17, 1992 - North Shore News - 7 INSIGHTS Dining home-style at High Boats Cafe HUGHES’ VIEWS AHEM. 1 would like to take this oppor- tunity to make a special an- nouncement. I am taking over as restaurant critic for this newspa- per. . No doubt this will come as something of a shock to Timothy Renshaw, managing editor and, up until now, the organ’s official Table Hopper, but it can’t be helped. 1 gave him his chance and he blew it. It all started a few weeks ago when we were having one of our usual light, bantering conversa- tions. A discussion on quantum physics, as I recall. Or perhaps it was navel lint. One of the two. Anyway, I distinctly recall fling- ing about the name of one of my favorite breakfast hangouts, Cap- tain Kate’s High Boats Cafe, snuggled on the edge of Mosquito Creek Marina near the bottom of Bewicke Ave. ““You should review it,"’ I en- thused, ‘‘Great place!"’ “OK,’’ he replied. And then, with typical editorial treachery, promptly forgot about it. The trouble with Tim is that he suffers from a certain je ne sais quoi. If he aid 1, for instance, were to write a book of our dining experiences, the title of his would be ‘‘Where the Elite Eat,”’ whereas mine would likely read, ‘*Where the Swine Dine.”’ His idea of a restaurant with fine ambience probably includes classical piano music, starched ta- blecloths, fingerbowls with bits of fruit floating in them. My expectations are somewhat lower. 1 only insist they don’t spray the Raid while I’m actually eating. You see, I like to be comferta- ble when | eat. I don’t want to spend a lot of time worrying whether my cumberbund clashes too severely with the wallpaper. I don’t want to wait four days for the chef to find just the right mushrooms for his chanterelle sauce. I don’t want to have to resort to fisticuffs to get the waiter to finally bring me the bill. I don’t want to wonder whether the little cup of mysterious liquid that inevitably shows up is some- thing I should dip my fingers in, dip my scallops in, or consider us- ing to wash my socks. 1 like to go in, grub down, pay up, and get out. High Boats is exactly my kind of place. ; It’s a small joint, with a some- what aged look — a sort of el- derly Atco trailer with a few signs of advanced rheumatism. Tables of assorted design are sprinkled here and there. Pictures and photos on the wall reflect the clientele — tugboats, fishing boats, pleasure boats, and for the occasional high-class guest (lost, obviously) a Bill Reid print. There are a couple of original oils too, done, I’m sure, by someone for whom the owner has a particular fondness. One that stands out in my memory is of a freighter and tugboat, the perspective askew, giving the painting a Grandma Moses charm. There are two entrances to High Boats, the doors of which are usually left open. No one knows why, although this morning it was for the convenience of two dogs, one lab and one shepherd, who shuffled in the Mosquito Creek side, sniffed about for a while, and then padded out the Bewicke side. No one even looked up from their plate. It’s that kind of place. 1 love it. As for conversation, I'll give you a sample: Group home story one-sided Dear Editor: North Vancouver is a beautiful area in which to live. Those who reside here appreciate the well-maintained homes, the sce- nery and the sense of community. For those who have spent most of their childhood and adult lives in an institution, sheltered from society, the appreciation fdr beau- ty, space and fellowship is even stronger. I am referring to those individuals who iive with a physi- cal and/or cognitive disability. Many of these individuals were placed in institutions at an early age because years ago society feit it was “for their own good.’’ But institutional life didn’t work out very well. Abuse was rampant, individuality was hard to find, motivation and quality of life was low. For about the last 10 years, these people have been suc- cessfully re-entering their own communities, many of them on the North Shore, some in the Lynn Valley area. They may be your neighbors. After reading the July 5 article in the North Shore News, ‘‘Resi- dents object to group home de- velopment in Lynn Valley area,” it struck me how little the com- munity (including the media!) re- ally understands about homes and the individuals who live in them. A group home is merely a group of individuals sharing a residence, who rely on paid staff to support them in their daily activities. These people may have cognitive or physical disabilities. These people may be loud or quiet, they may be tall, short, group. overweight, underweight, attrac- tive or not so attractive. They have individual differences like you and me, but everyone, no matter how ‘“‘severely disabled,’’ can contribute to the community in some way. Unfortunately, I didn’t read any of this in the articie. I didn’t read anything about how studies have shown that group homes do not affect property values, how a per- son with a disability next door is not move likely to disturb your sleep and affect your enjoyment of life. Traditionally when an article is written, the reporter investigates both sides of the story. I heard only one side when I read this ar- ticle. North Shore Association for the Mentally Handicapped Ratepayers critical of WV. council expenses Dear Editor: The Ambleside and Dundarave Ratepayers Association (ADRA) is aware that West Vancouver coun- cil (or rather, the taxpayers) paid the costs of sending two aldermen’s spouses to a Federa- tion of Canadian Municipalities conference in Montreal recently. Aithough as a.civic official it may be hard to spend time away from one’s family it is a fact of life for all aldermen -who par- ticipate in lecal government, and ali aldermen are aware of this at . election time. Unlike West Vancouver, the Ci- ty of North Vancouver did not pay spouses’ travel expenses for this conference. Taxes for West Vancouver tax- payers this year increased 28% to 0%. This conference may be essen- tial for aldermen to attend in order to be effective in local gov- ernment, but it is the position of the ADRA that this is not respon- sible use of the taxpayers’ purse. E.J. Fonseca, President ADRA West Yancouver Waitress: ‘‘Don’t look at me like that.” Customer: ‘'God. Haven't you had your coffee yet?’’ Waitress: “‘Whaddya want?”’ Customer: ‘‘Gimme some poached eggs and hash browns, willya? And put something on the eggs. Don’t care what ... onions, maybe.”’ Waitress: ‘‘Don't be weird, Harry.” This waitress, whose name escapes me at the moment, promptly bustled back to the kitchen and gave old weird Harry exactly what he wanted. You see, she is also the cook. (And, I suspect, when times get tough, the bouncer.) Each time I've been there, she has cooked my breakfast for me. Bacon and eggs. Over easy. Great old-fashioned taste. You can ac- tually feel those little cholesterol whatnots building Hoover Dams in your veins. Boy, they’re good! The fact is, the place is just like the sign outside says — “Home Style.” , You can wander in, sit ata table, and be yourself, weird or otherwise. Smoke if you have ’em. Scratch yourself and burp if you must. All they ask at High Boats is, if you’re about to pass wind, for God’s sake sit by the open doors. Submissions to Friday Insights (700-900 words) can be sent to the attention of Barbara Black, North Shore News, 1139 Lonsdale Ave., North Vancouver, B.C. V7M . 2H4. People with special needs are entitled to same freedoms . Land costs when new home construction is required, and Dear Editor: Over the past eight years, the North Shore Disability Resource Centre has developed three group homes in the Lynn Valley area. We were appalled by the July 5 article in the North Shore News presenting Lynn Valley residents’ concerns about the development of a new home by the B.C. Housing Management Commission. Our policy is to provide in- formation to lecal area resi- dents, as a courtesy, prior to developing a group home so that questions can be answered and misconceptions laid to rest. As MLA David Shreck pointed out in the article, resi- dents are not generally con- sulted when so-called ‘‘nor- mal’? people move into their neighborhoods. People with special needs are entitled to the same freedom to live in com- munities of their choice. How- ever, there are several factors which contribute to the cluster- ing of homes in certain areas, proximity to services and transporiation are some of these factors. Cur association does not support the develop- ment of a ‘“‘disproportionate’’ share of group homes in any area, but your article does not demonstrate that this is so in Lynn Valley. What proportion of the general population do 96 group home residents repre- sent? We are disappointed that the article did not present a balanced view of the integra- tion of people with disabilities into our community. For every person who feels that’ some people ‘will never be integrated, there are many more who know from personal experience that all people benefit from . community living. Pam Horton President North Shore Disability Resource Centre