eos ra - C7 - Sunday, January 8, 1984 - North Shore News There’s no time like the present DO YOU ever feel tied in to a situation you do not enjoy very much? Or perhaps the better question might be, do you ever feel tied in to a situation you hate with a hearty grimness? Have you said to yourself “ on occasion that someday you would deal with a situa- tion that has you hog-tied? And has that ‘someday’ been slow in arrival? Are the following examples anything like yours? It may have been 17 years now since you had that nasty quarrel with your sister and you have not spoken to her since. You can’s remember what the quarrel was about, but, whatever, it’s got you tied into it and you’re still stuck with it 17 years later. You don’t like it and ‘some- day’ you’li do something about it. But ‘someday’ h never quite arrived. A few years ago you bor- rowed a little money from a friend ~— just for the weekend — and you never paid him back. You want to, and you know you will — someday -—- but time and Health FROM PAGE C6 plied generously and covered by a cloth diaper or a thick training pant that breathe. Your kid will smell like a fish cannery but he’ll grow up to thank you. I know that you' want to share ..accommodation and . babysitting. My best advice is to pay a few dollars more and go for a two bedroom condo. More friendships have been lost by putting two infants and two sets of parents in close quarters than I'd care to estimate. As any parent of twins or close siblings will tell you — one kid screams, two kids scream. One wakes the other. Believe me, I'm an ex- pert — our two youngest are about a year apart and they sang duet nightly. Make sure your health in- surance is superior. Even at home you’ll have plenty reasons to rush your kid down to the doctor's office. In Hawaii, that can cost a bundle. Get both kids thoroughly checked before. you leave and bring along some gum-soother for teething. | used a common gel which 1 rubbed on with my unsanitary finger An ice cube (sterile water please) wrapped in gauze helps too. Personally, | admire your guts. I'd no more take on that arrangement than I'd fly to El Salvador for a relaxing holiday. Etther hire a sitter MICROWAVE OVENS | THE LEADING -BRANDS AT LOW WAREHOUSE PRICES povg el Ae pret pow: reap cone visit OUR NEW SHOWROOM COLONY HOME FURNISHINGS Warehovse/Distribution Centre OPEN TO THA PUBLIC 1075 Roosevelt Cres (behind the Avaian) open Man - ‘Gar trom 9 am to & 30 pm can -- ‘again you have seen to it that ‘someday’ is not to be, just yet. You have dodged the growing edge by Hayden Stewart Freelance Counsellor Havden Stewart may be reached at 261-6242 for appointments for individual, family or group counselling. meeting your friend and feel like“a fool about it, but you still owe him the money. Years ago, to make an im- pression on a new acquain- tance, you spun her a wild tale“ You told her you had a PhD. in nuclear physics and had been serving the govern- ment for a year as an under- cover consultant. As a matter of fact you did not quite get your grade 12 and are work- ing as a librarian’s assistant. You have wanted to ‘fess up, and you know you will ‘someday’, but it’s hard. You'd feel like a nerd. So ‘someday’ has not been allowed to arrive. ‘Someday’ you’ll attend to those things. You know you will. You don’t like being tied into them. It’s exasperating or depressing or scary (depending on who you are) to be hooked by something like that. You know for cer- tain that unfinished business which you want to put behind you, yet fail to deal with, is actually harmful to your well-being, to your health, to your self-esteem and, certain- ly to your freedom to live your life as well as you can. So? So why not say, ENOUGH ALREADY? Set a date. 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