VENEREAL DISEASE! Sound scary? It is! Venereal diseases are also known as STDs. STDs are sexual- ly transmitted diseases and they are rapidly spreading throughout our society. AIDS, gonorrhea, syphillis, herpes, chlamydia and genital warts are only a few diseases that can affect anyone who is sexually active. This doesn’t just mean adults, it includes teenagers as weil. If you are sexually active, the risk is there. If you have unprotected sex you are at an even greater risk. If you have multiple partners the tisk is even hieher. Just knowv: ; the names of these diseases .5 not going to make them go away. Knowing how someone got them is not going to raake them go away. Perhaps knowing what these diseases. can -do to someone who contracts them may influence teens. Gonorrhea can cause burning or painful urination as well as a thick yellow or white discharge from the genitals, Women can experience cramps in the lower abdomen and nuore painful than usual menstrual cycles. If aot treated, both men and women may suffer from damage to the reproductive organs. If a femaie becomes pregnant she can then infect her child during birth. Gonorrhea can’ cause heart trouble and. skin diseases as wel! as arthritis and blindness, Chlamydia affects 5% to 10% of the female population. You may have symptoms such as it- chirg, burning and bleeding from the genitals. “Women can have ectopic pregnancies (pregnancy inside the uterine tube) as well as pelvic in- flammatory disease, which can be very painful and can result in in- fertility. Men can suffer from in- fertility as well. When syphillis occurs, a sore will form at the area where the micro-organism entered the body. It goes away for a while, but this can be followed by rashes, flu- type symptoms, mouth sores, and some hair loss. For some who have not been treated, syphillis may result in heart failure or in- sanity. ‘ Herpes are sores that develop, and usually cause itching, burning or numbness around the genitals. Blisters appear, only to dry up, scab and fall off. Herpes can be treated, but herpes cannot be cured, There is, as yet, no known cure for AIDS. Many people think if you talk about safe sex among teens, this will encourage sexual activity. Chances are, kids are still going to have sex, regardiess. Even if you preach abstinence, many kids are still going to engage in sexual ac- tivity. It is important to let them know that they have a choice, but it is even more important to make them aware of the precautions that they can take if they do choose to have sex. The statistics surrounding these diseases are not enough to influ- ence teens to use proper precau- tions. Kids are still having un- protected sex and getting STDs. What follow are just a few star- tling statistics surrounding AIDS. As of Oct. 28, the Ministry of Health quarterly AIDS update points out the following: © It has been estimated that there have been approximately 5,000 to 8,000 British Columbia residenis infected with HIV. @ There have been 1,279 cases of AIDS in B.C. through June 30, since the first case was reported in January 1983, and of this group, 891 have died. On the North Shore, 197 indi- viduals between the ages of 20 and 29 are HIV infected. Many of these individuals were infected in their teen years and were possibly unaware of it. Recently my family and I lost a friend to AIDS. He caught the virus by having unprotected sex. J remember the changes I would see in him. At first you wouldn’: have known he had AIDS. Years went on and he started to get sick a lot. Soon he lost weight, his strength, and his eyesight. It scared me. 1 don’t want to end up dying because of having sex. People think that only bad and dirty people get AIDS, but he wasn’t a bad person and neither am I. If it happened to him, it could. happen te me. That experi- ence showed me the importance of safer sex. When I spoke with other teens about their concerns, I got many different responses. In many cases, kids just didn’t want to talk about it. Many teens feel that if they have been going out with the same person for a long time, there is no need to practise safer sex. How do they know that their partner is not sleeping around? If you sleep with someone, you ‘are sleeping with everybody else that person has ever slept with. Male, 20: Nowadays, kids are having sex at a much earlier age. } Last week we asked about homosexuality, if you know any gays. or lesvians and how you feel about that and last week’s ZAP! article on the subject. The article in the paper was really well done. Four years ago, my sister told me that she was gay and it didn’t change our relationship at ali. I’ve got two smali children; she loves them dearly; we love her. Startling stats show need for safe sex practices think the idea of condoms in schools is a whole new idea. You have to ask yourself: if seeing condoms in school every day, will that put the idea in their heads that they should be having sex? 1 think the importance of sex has been lost. People don’t give sex the importance thar they should. I think teens need to know how sex can change you as a@ person, and what unprotected sex can do to a person. It needs to be talked about more. Female, 17: It scares me to the point where | am confused. [| don’t like condoms though [ don’t want to die or suffer from an STD. I don’t believe in abstinence; that is not for me. | am hesitant when I am about to engage in a sexual activity because of all of these diseases. i don’t want to give up sex al! together. I guess the only thing 1- can do is use a condom every time, limit my sexual partners and hope it doesn’t happen to me. Male, 16: It’s OK to have sex without a ring on your finger but without a condom, that's crazy. I have too much to live for. I don’t want to die or suffer for the rest of my life. Female, 18: Being a sexually ac- tive teenager in the ’90s is very tough. You must learn to balance logical thinking with your raging: hormones. The risk of A1DS and other STDs is a major cencern of mine. Many of my friends I talk to at school seem to think, ‘‘It will never happen to me.’’? However, I know many girls who changed their attitude after being pro- miscuous and contracting an STD or becoming pregnant. Personally, I do practise safe sex and I also try to have long- term monogamous relationships to protect myself from contracting any STDs. Personally, it is aiso a moral issue not to be promiscuous and J am selective about who I become sexually active with. Overall, I believe that many teens my age do not realize the risk they are taking when they hop in the sack with someone. How- ever, within five years, my genera- tion will have to deal with the decisions they made when . they were horny teenagers and live with these decisions for the rest of their lives. Male, 18: It ain’t going to happen to me. I know who I sleep with. I think this whole thing is blown out of proportion, It doesn’t hap- pen as often as peoples think. Male, 17: Of course I believe in having safe sex. You have to have a responsible attitude and be able to talk to one another. Without communication I don’t think you are ready to have sex. Female, 16: I feel safe sex is the best way to have sex and tie only way. But what is seal safe sex? They say there is no real safe sex even when you’re on the pill I think everyone is entitled to their own opinion. I have a friend who is bisexual, and it took him a while to tell me. But [ always suspected that he might have been. But I said that I could deal with it if he was. When he did tell me, I didn’t know what to say — 3 was definitely in shock. I still see him as a friend and treat him just the same. Fim not really sure how I MANY TEENS are sexually” ace live, many have unprotected sex. Although it’s been talked about, North Shore schools don‘t have condom machines. Do you think they should be installed? Do you think having them would = en- courage you to have sex? Phote Taya Mathias SEXUALLY ACTIVE teenagera should te aware of the dangers involved, and know that taking precautions is importent In to- day’s society where STDs are comsnon. or using condoms. There is always the chance. I do praciise safe sex by using condoms and birth con- trol pills. I practise safe sex because I [ove my boyfriend and 1 love myself. There are stil many teens who are not practising safer sex. Most teens that I spoke with who had unsafe or unprotected sex were pressured into it. It works buth ways with both males and fe- malcs. I feel if someone tries to talk you into «caing something you don’t want to, then maybe they aren’t as sincere as you think. So why bother having sex with them in the first place? If they are not’ concerned about their own well-being, what makes you think they would be concezn- ed about yours? Many people think that having unprotected sex just once won’t hurt, but it’s like Russian roulette; there’s always a chance. It only takes one bullet. These are risks that don’t need would feel if one of my friends told me that they were gay. I guess ¥ wouldn't like it. 1 think homosexuals are fine. I worked on a play, where half the crew was transvestite. I think it's OK. If a good friend told me that they are homosexual, I'd say fine. I wouldn't care, it doesn’t make a difference, they're all human. I personally don’t have a to be taken. Although condoms axe not 100% safe, they greatly reduce the risk. Most people den’t even know when they have an STD because there are often no symptoms. Growing up is about learning, exploring and taking risks. When the degree of risk has already been proven, why take the chance? ~ Has the message not gotten. through? Do we really think we ase immortal? Do we think it.will not happen to us, that it’s some- one else’s problem or it will go away? Our bodies are very precious to us for the simple reason that we only get one. We must learn to love and pro- tect ourselves. I don’: want to see any of my family or friends get hurt by having to face an STD. Why let something upset and hurt us when it can be prevented? Youth Views is written ccopera- tively by the students of Sutherland secondary school’s video production career prepara- tion course. problem with gays and les- biaus. I think they should be able to do what they want without the fear of their life, and life is sc short anyway. } do xzow people who have problems because ‘‘it’s not part of God's plan.”’ I figure that if you're on this earth, then God has to put you here for a reason. Sa I don’t really have a problem and I think that they shauld be able to do whatever they want. Meg hd gpl F WANT EG les en taN NE eta ho Ey ae hie oe oe ge | a PY