SUSIE doesn’t fully: ~ love band Jeroen Her hus- we their cight-vear- -old son, having no examples of healthy self-esteem, announces that he cannot love himself. ‘His mother tells him, “You must learn to love yourself.” ‘He replies, “I ‘don’t know how!” rThe only way Tommy = could ever even begin to love hiriselfis for his parents to love themselves and freely demon- ’ strate their love for one anoth- er to connect more intimately. - +" Not being able to say “No” isa symptom of feeling, unlov- able: When Susic says “Yes” (when she’d rather say “No”),: it’s usually.a way of needing to *. be, approved ‘of. She believes, that. being accommodating (even, if. she! is* sacrificing her. own legitimate needs}: renders her'morce likeable. Actually, it creates lack of respect and Tommy becomes more manip- “ulative, demanding and willful- ly. abusive. By allowing her son to be abusive toward her, she gives him the message that it’s . OK.to insule or hurt females. Also, he is abusing his own feminine side, rather than hon- oring it. “One waits i. but there is f- * part that cuwset ited issues could rock the boat and, perhaps, lead to separation, _even though the point of my “therapeutic counselling is to gently heal and unite. - How rare is the knowledge - Of true intimacy! On the one hand, many don’t believe it’s ible; on the other, most are terrified of actually finding it. Jan 24-30, 1997 ARIES (March 21-April 20) Listen to hunches, today. - Over the weekend, you may be , manipulative. Early week, cooperation is best. Wednesday, you live ard let live.. Work and play may be in conflict, Thursday. TAURUS (April 21-May 21) ’ Ambition stimulated today and throughout the weekend. Early week, you deserve appre- ciation for your ‘efforts. Wednesday, time for more exercise. Improve conditions at home and work, Thursday. GEMINI (May 22-June 21) Prepare for positive, con- structive changes, today and during the weekend. Early week, more decisive at home. Wednesday, good fortune. Resolve a misunderstanding Thursday. CANCER (June 22-July 23) There’s money to spend on home improvements, now and ~ Some ' SAGITTARIUS over the weekend, Early week, give of yourself and enjoy the appreciation. Wednesday, pam- per yourself. A disagreement, Thursday. Yield. LEO (July 24-Aug. 23) Pleasant surprises, Friday, Leo. This weekend, someone impresses you. Early week, pay No attention to the hearsay. Wednesday and Thursday, question your own judgement. VIRGO (Aug. 24-Sept. 23) Speak up, Friday, Virgo. This weekend, tact is needed. Early week, you make some money. Wednesday, good job- related news! Release your financial concerns, Thursday. LIBRA (Sept. 24-Oct. 23) Take a risk with money, today. This weekend, you are appreciated. Early week, you enjoy your home-life. Wednesday, a new friendship. Thursday, no matter what; be calm. SCORPIO (Oct. 24-Nov. 22) Conditions favour buying (whatever you need) now and this weekend. Early week, profound ideas. Wednesday, you require priva- cy. Continue to shop wisely, Thursday. (Nov. 23- Dec. 21) Vou are finny, today. This .. sweal, misunderstandings are resolved. Want more money, carly week? Ask! Wednesday, good travel condi- tions. If you dow’t want to go, Thursday, don’t! CAPRICORN (Dec. 22-Jan. 20) Have you enough home or health insurance? Great bar- gains now and carly in the week, Wednesday, more oppor- tunity to increase income. Stand up for yourself, Thursday. AQUARIUS (Jan. 21-Feb, MM aetp others now and over the weekend, Aquarius. Early week, you find out what you “lost.” Wednesday, speculation benefits. Further — payofts, Thursday. PISCES (Feb. 20-March 20) Be objective and confident today and during this weckend, Pisces, Early week, improve your appearance, perhaps? Wednesday, sentiment clouds your judgement. 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