. . 1 ° ae . . . . ~ : pel 4 : ' ' a , _ Tanai our oF THEATRE . | Freelance Counsellor Hayden: Stewart may be reached at 261-6242 - _ __ forappoinments forindividual, family or group.counselling. His ‘office in the Inernational Plaza Hotel (Open Tuesdays only) 2 is forthe “convenience of North Shore residents. ao tick “When I came back be theless are being tented si ~asked the original cashier if we were Wrong. QUESTION: Whea I-was out . om.a-date with my gi last might, she asked me to. have sex with her. It hit me _ ikea toa of bricks and I told We're both 16 and virgins, but that doesn’t seem to concern her. AE my friends are telling me to go for it, ‘but I dost chinkif'sright. "If do go to bed with her, "y "know Fil feel cramnry, but if - 3 don't she'll be mad and my; friends will think I'm a STEWART: It probably. took a lot of courage for Girlfriend wants sex you to go to bed with her. And when she got your turn- down, for ber own respect she almost had to “get mad”. There: “is every chance ” ‘however, that in the midst of ber “mad”, she was relieved The most important aspect of your dilemma is not whether you will go to bed with her, but just exactly ~ whois in charge of your life. “she'll get mad”. So? It you start performing in a way that will keep her from being mad, or make your have-tiken ‘their advice, or g0 against your own wishes’ to avoid having your - “friends” call you “homo”, how deeply will you get into. this crummy business: of letting others steer your life?. There are so “many profound and deeply-feit emotions connected to your "question, simply: becaiise -you feel it is primatily a -bered me and she said no. sexual question, and that Makes it harder for you, of course. But try to see it in perspective. Examine more freely who yoti are. accept yourself as you are,and Hive your life in that context. — No one else in the world is gekets. My. friend -had his bat I couldn't find mine s0 he ; asked. me to leave so we - could talk outsffle the cinema. & , ‘He ssid “You dor't have your ticket and I can't _ believe you bonght one; to SeovEs betene the adherwine you would have Kept -y ticket.” He took me to the cashier . and asked # she remem- The cashier 1 bonght my ticket from wes on her break so he told me to leave and come back in half an hour. my. letter so. . know they should hold on to. thelr tickets s long . time because I didn’t see anything | like HOLD “ON TO YOUR - TICKETS or something like - that in the theatre, -- ~She-remembered-‘me‘and she ~ — —— choice to do what we can to __ Sight the wrong, or (if we are = not sticklers . about_.“the . ” principle . of ‘the ‘thing”) to _ forget it and learn: ‘whatever — ~ fesson. ‘there is for usin the If’ the person who ! oS a putting: us on the ‘spot 1s. ‘ant going to gain by: his actions; | then it is quite likely he is ‘sincere, even though he isin ‘ the. wrong. Such seems to be the situation in your case: Td- _ forget it and after this shang vn to your tickets!" ~ as Thanks for warhing our a em aders. liv 40 ‘or 50 years - " STEWART: Once in a while, most of us find ourselves in a position where we KNOW we are riglit, but never- _— you may come-to feel that. jen’ minutes of **Meat- balls’’ ~ enough! Was. “Probably Thursday- in charge of your life. But By MILOKOVAR Planet Venus journeys in Wargo Angust 25 to Sep- tember 18 reinforced by the Sun during that same time. It offers an excellent op- portunity especially for those emotion-centered individuals to straighten up their affairs while Venus- emotions are now tem- porarily overpowered by the mind and forced to pet in line with practical in- tellectual demands of one’s daily life patterns. Virgo. Scorpio, Capri- corn, Aries, Taurus, Cancer should find no problem to follow the right direction. Gemini, Leo, Sagittarius, Pisces may rebel and therefore should discipline themselves and exercise will power to cope with matters on hand. Libra, Aquarius have a considerable freedom of . choice .in-determining—what is the best_course..to take when allowing the mind to have a free hand. VIGO August 24 Septeasbes 23 ~ Follow the voice of your mind which is the voice of your intuition as well, changes in your life im- minent,; face upto them. ‘LIBRA Septcusber 24 to October 23 An attitude of selflessocss and helpfulness toward others may assist you to solve your own problems in the process of self- effacement. a Socia lize, you and your stars by milo kovar circulate with view of learning new tricks. Adopt new attitudes from others, and apply m your environment. SAGITTARIUS November 23 December 21 Brash aside the feeling -of bemg shghted or chastised unjustly by superiors, pariners, associates. It may - be only marking a good time to objective self-evaluation. CAPRICORN December 22 to Jamaary 20 Expand your horizons, advance your educational status, Read, travel._take, stock and inventory of the past, plan future. AQUARIUS January 21 to February 19 A provident time to carefully examine and evaluate the substance of your business associations, relationship with mate. PISCES Fehwwary 20 to March 20 A challenging time for your sensitive, feclingful nature. Brace yourself to cope with extremely mental and disagrecable individuals. Rise up to the challenge, allow the mind to dominate over the feelings. Restram yourself in criticism of those you work with and those near to you. A good tite to objectively and dispassionately evaluate your mate/love retation- ships, inspire children to better performance. GEMINI Miay 22 to June 21 Face your domestic problems squarcly; attend to chores you detest, clean house. wardrobes. cic. 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