58 - Can he continue to meet her nee Q. 1 AM) head over heels in love for the first time in my life at 64. Gr. Ruth Westheimer ASK DR. RUTH She is a wonderful, very sexy woman who wanis to marry me, 1 want to marry her too. We've been seeing each other for six months. lam not sure it's the right thing to do because of the age dif- ference between us. She is only 29. I've had no performance prob- tems whatsoever with her and am always able to satisfy her. This is the best sex Pye ever had in my bife. I know, however, that women peek sexuatly in their 30s. FE tear I won't be able to continue satis- fying ber in five or 10) years. Siteutd UC marry her? Wil Fo be able to keep up my stamina info old age? A. Bravo to you for such a wonderful sex life! TP can't say if you should marry her or not. And T can't know if you will be able to maintain your scxuai stamina in five or 10 ycars. I don’t have a crystal ball! But [ do know that many men remain sexually active in their 70s and 80s. The decision to marry is not an easy one jor anyone. You are right to think hard before miarry- ing somecny who is 35 years having TWO WAYS TO ESCAPE THE GS Wednesday, June 26, 1931 - North Share News LIFESTYLES younger than vou ide. Have you talked this aver with a professional? ft would be a goad idea for the two of you to vei counselling together before you make a deetsion about mar- riage. Q@. FE get emotionally involved too quickly with men. Eve been divorced twice and f am going to he 34 next month, Each time | got married | was in a romantic fog. PE got into that fog early in a relationship, some- times as soon as the first date. Et happens the minute | begin sleep- ing with a man. Once 1 am in it, | can't make any rational decisions about the man until my fog Hfts. Wher it does, Pbresk up-or get divorced, How cen ft deal with this romantic tog? E don’t want to give up sex. Loam seeing a mun now, but haven't had sex yet. Pie delaying the sex hevause } want te keep my wits about me. Any advice for how f can keep doing that after [have sex? A. Some women think they must make a commitment to a man as soon as they have had sex with him. and you seem to be one of them. You are right to delay the sex until you get to know a man better. That's a good first step for you. The next step is learning how to keep your options open after you have begun having sex. What you are calling the “romantic fog” is a cloud of fa- miliar fantasies you create around your jover. Fogs are dangerous because you cant see clearly through them! {f vou find yourself building the same old fantasies around this new man after you make love, then perhaps you need to take a sexual break until you can see him clearly again. Q. t began a great sexual rela- tionship with a woman almost two months apo. [t's been wildly ex- citing Yor both af us. We see each other three or four times a week and still can't get enough of cach other. So why am PE masturbating on tae nights 1 don't see her? i'm in my mid-20s and have a high sex drive, hut I haven't been Ti... $6 9 Canadian at par. Escape the GST and retreat to the WestCoast Roosevelt or yestCoast Vance Hotel where you'll enjoy gracious amenities and excellent Service. Located tr: the heart of downtown Seatre. both hofeis are within easy walking aistance from Vvestlake Mall Pike Place Marke? and the Moncrail WHOL GON CQ » WestCoast * _Vance Hotel ie Seite aay For 1eservaucns & aaa 1 860-4 » WestCoast # Roosevelt Hotel Wa untct this constantly erotically charged since Lreached puberty. Before Ber, 2 wasn't seeing wunyore and was oasturbating (so ae divee times a week. Now Pin stil masturbating that much plus having all this sex with her. What's wrong vith me? Am I suddenly oversexed? EL always thought people tn rela- tionships who masturbated on the side were cither oversexed or dissatisfied or both. A. Nothing is wrong with you! 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