‘36 - Samdiay, September 10, 1289 - Nocth Shore News Employee acted out of line Q. | AM employed as a scientist at a very large firm which recently held a2 joint training session ffor the scientific and engineering divisions at a remote, com- pany-owned resort. The course instructor was an at- tractive man in his early 40s, representing one of our company’s veadors. A young woman is her early 20s from the engineering division made advances to the instracter. He had meationed in class that he was married, and had even icld us a story sboni one of his children. The young woman toid me that she was engaged to be married. Yet ome evening at dinner she brought him two glasses of wine be bad rat requested, each time walk- ing across the room, 93 she was not sitting at his table. Ske used pro- vocative posturing toward him and mode several flirtatious comments to him in the company of many of ws. On the third day, she even went so far as to reciine her backside against the instructor’s frostside. He éid sat appear to encourage her ’ Ninety percent of the exuployees attending the session sre married. J rather doubt that the young miss manners Judith Martin women’s behavior escaped their attention. I confess that i said aad did nothing in regard to ber lack of @isezction. Wowsd Miss Macrers please instruct me as to what would have been an appropriate and proper response on say part? A. A response to what? As far as Miss Manners can discover from your letter, you have not received overtures requiring a response. Rather, you and the other employees are in the not-unplea- sant position of observing an amusing show without having any responsibility for the behavior in- volved. The instructor is in a more awkward position. His defenses, of advertising his family and ignoring piysical advances, do not seem to be working. However, he need on- ly outiast the occasion and go home. 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