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DEAR MISS MANNERS —
.My~ wedding .. dinner-recep- °
tion last’: November was for

70 peopte, 2s'I did not want
'_a big wedding. but preferred
“amore personal: one. A

friend offered to do « video

North Shore News,

LIFESTYLES,

favor and 1 had no reason to be
upset.

I have more than 100 pictures of
my wedding to choose from for
these albums. Although it has been
time-consuming to choose the best
shots of each member of the fami-

for us. My. sister’s husband ©,

camera for pictures. to put in
. slbums’ for: my. _husband's
family. and my. family.

* A sister from: out/of town took”.

to use his good.

| pictures~ with her” camera‘and of-.-

' fered them ‘to’ us if we wanted to
‘Inelude: them
.albums.;.Two of my nieces ‘2lso
took pictures and offered them: A

in ‘our | wedding -

third niece took” pictures” of. my . 7
‘wedding and decided to give them...

to my family for Christmas

“The first person she gave these». Pe oo

: ‘enlarged pictures. to’ ‘(including ° an
enlarged | framed ; pictore.. of. may
hesband and: me): was my “mother

"(ver grandmother). ’ 1. was upset

shat she would takz It upon herself

to: do: this.. I> Immediately. called « :

and asked her. not to give the rest

was my, ‘wedding ‘and I was prepar-
ing albums for them: She havghtily
replied that. she. was- doing’ me

personally.

If she gave. ‘pletaires of | ber wed- re

_— unless, |
squabbling has made them heartily. |
sick of the whole event. :

“ding to to my family. I'd say she hud

the right. But to. give pictures: of

my wedding to my family without —

consulting or asking my permission
was not’ right ur: any of her
business.”

* pam nat an expert on etiquette,

but [ feel she had no right {o do |
‘this. I'd appreciate your comments
on the rights and wrongs of this -

situation,

. GENTLE READER — Please. get

control of yourself, madam; you
are frothing all over your. bridal
lace. :

No doubt,

your albums as well as her pictures
of course, ali. this

: ‘The bride does not have a copy-. 4
_. Sight'on her wedding, which by the
¢ way, she contd more property refer
-to:as “our wedding.” [
-your family'will be glad to receive

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