42 - Wednesday, May 3, 1989 - North Shore News

LIFESTYLES

For more info read Hemingway

Q: SINCE OUR second or
third meeting she has expe-
rienced orgasms of greater
intensity than she ever had
before.

She had read. sbout such
orgaans but after many years of
sexual experience had decided they
did not exist.

ask
Dr. Ruth

Dr. Ruth Westheimer

Alter an orgasm of this type, she
will roll over and remain mo-
Gonless for several minutes. Also,
she will tremble. And every nerve
ending in her body tiagles. Can
you provide any information on
this type of orgasm, or recommerd
any book that deals with it?

A. This is known as a terrific
orgasm. ‘‘The Sun Also Rises’’ hy
Ernest Hemingway deals with this
subject. You must be some lover!
That is a smartie answer, I agree,
but what is your problem? Or do
you really think you have one? If
she has not complained, don’t
make trouble.

One thing interests me: Can she
lie motionless and tremble at the
same time, or first one, then the
other? About rolling over and ly-
ing still, so many men would envy
you because that is what they want

to de and they wish their wives
would want to do it too.
Q. We are in our 70s. My wife

she insisis that this fo:m of sex is
harmful.

A. It is not. There is no medical
evidence against self-gratification
at all, in spite of all the dire warn-
ings that used to be issued, but I
doubt that this will persuade your
wife to agree with you.

In sex therapy, self-gratification
is recommended as a learning ¢x-

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perience, especially for women
who do not yet know how to have
an orgasm. Ana it is widely
recommended by many sources as
the wise alternative to seeking sex-
ual release among strangers, risk-
ing your own health and the health
of your steady partner.

If your wife has no desire for
sex, why suppose she might want
to pleasure herself? I’d guess that
you want to interest her in sex

: = 4 :

somehow, with the goal of getting
her to share sex with you again —
in some form. Perhaps you should
have a session or two with a sex
therapist. Go on your own if your
wife refuses at first.

Q. My friend moved in with a
fellow, and after a few flawed sex-
usl encounters he became totally
impotent. She blamed that on his
being just divorced, mervous,
stressed, what have you, but now

kee won't have sex if be can get out
of it. Sex offends him. Whea she
tries to pleasure him, he covers his
eyes. If a sex scene comes on the
TV, he switches channels or leaves
the room.

He kates to discass sex or their
relationship but becomes so
Pleading and human when she says
she’s moving cut that she does not

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