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early life, as far as sex goes.
The big thing is related to
the words you use when you
discuss your dilemma. You
ask, “Do you think I should
give in to him?” And I say,
never “give in” to anyone,
about anything! Giving in,
means, of course, agreeing

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and that it's neat that he
comes over to play with
Jason and that when he
comes from now on, you are
going to have snacks for
them both. Then tell him
that you don’t want him to
bring ANY food with him
and that if he does, you'll
have to send him home with
it. Let him know that you
would not like doing that and
that both he and Jason would
be unhappy about it, but that
if he brings cating stuff with
him, home he goes.

The logical result, of

course, is that Jason will get
invited to go to his friend's

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self. If he, (or anyone) were
asking you to “give in” and
eat liver and onions, or go to
a dirty movie, or go to
church or go to bed, the
answer is NO! Ask yourself,
“who's in charge here?”,
then give yourself a good
clear ringing answer — “I am
in charge here. This is MY

lace instead! So, talk to the
ittle guy’s mother and ask
her if she would mind
helping you in your. efforts
on Jason's behalf by not
letting him have anything to
eat when he is over there.
Tell her you'll give him
something before he goes,
or, if she likes, you'll send
Jason with something for
both boys. Don't criticize the
junk snacks she gives her
boy, just ask for help in
sticking to your plan with
Jason. If she goes along with
you, you're home free. If she
doesn’t, you may need to
consider something a bit
more drastic, but I think it

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all-important matter as your
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You might also consider
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too too too with Jason. If it
doesn’t happen too often, his
friend's junk snacks may not
bring on some lasting
tragedy for Jason.

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