: ¢ last = Relations 'simple- greeting in’ > month’s article. +; entitled, J the. 0: ’ Kinsmen Club in 1968 ‘and= ‘we've: been. part ‘of this =~ _ organization ‘ ever since. In ¢ | 24 ‘National | Bulletin; ‘there was a short. ; o“Ten - f commandments -of Human .,,_ ". It_was. borrowed: - ‘from - -the - Parksville, B. C. ‘ “ Club (and, ‘before that???). 1k éaught my eye because ~ .. for! “living, » “providing: “you. many ‘avon eae a Tt ‘provide ter. advice © for Tl SOs with all 2 apologies. ‘t6. the original, ‘source for my amendments, © here is a whole ‘set: of. rules that may save you from “misplaced”luggage_. or - spit in your dinner. 1. SPEAK TO PEOPLE. - There is nothing so riice_as a cheerful word of greeting. (Note: It doesn’t take -a Berlitz graduate to leari a the language of the country. Don’t save your courtesy for managers and officials. They don’t. hand out the soap and towels- or unplug toilets!) 2. CALL PEOPLE BY NAME. The sweetest music to anyone's ears is the sound of his own name. (Note: Not when yelled. loudly and prefaced by the words, “Gimme a beer!”) , 3. SMILE AT.PEOPLE. It “ Beware’ of ‘arguments with - takes-72 muscles to- frown “the local police. You know’ * / PRAISE, CAUTIOUS | WITH CRITICISM. (Note: ; and only. 14 to.smile. (Note: . And the language is in- ternational! Just ‘be: a little caréful, guys, when.in a bar by yourselves. It’s not too - easy to explain your “companion” to your wife - even if Mabel has just worn out the CHARGEX.) 4. BE FRIENDLY AND HELPFUL. If you would have friends, be a friend. (Note: A lot of Canadians are slightly wary of making friends. Perhaps it’s a fear of “being used”. lonely and some of the coldness other travellers show is just insecurity.) 5. BE CORDIAL. Speak and act as if everything you do is a genuine pleasure. (Note: While you're learning to say “Hello” also learn the phrases for “Thank You” and “You're Welcome”. Besides, if you're in a tight spot, they aré-nice to repeat over and over while you wait for rescue.) 6. BE GENUINELY INTERESTED IN PEOPLE. Yqu can like almost everyone, if you try. (Note: I like the word “almost”’.) In years of. travel I've discovered that. most people are a little - ¢ ety 7. BE GENEROUS WITH In some places, the only , praise some of the em- ployees hear is from the odd tourist. In. Spain, I praised the young girl who had taken - my laundry home returned . it and “sparkling - white”. She was so delighted that she washed everything - even the clean stuff.) 8. BE CONSIDERATE WITH FEELINGS OF OTHERS. There are usually three sides toa controyersy:, - yours, the other fellow's and» the. right. ‘side. (Only:. three? ... -what side you'll be ‘on - and ay so does he!) — um 9. BE ALERT. TO GIVE SERVICE. What counts most in life.is what we do for _ others. (Note: It is helpful to wear shin pads when assisting ladies in distress. Especially when four other guys are doing the same thing - one or two who are expecting a tip.) 10. Add to this: A GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR (Note: especially advised when the airlines are on strike and you are marooned in Istanbul); A BIG DOSE OF PATIENCE. (Note: Usually bottled in 25 or 40 ounce jugs); A DASH OF HUMILITY. (Note: Easily discovered in washrooms devoid of paper.) AND YOU ' WILL ‘BE REWARDED °» MANY-FO- LD. Assuming you are still in the washroom, you'll ap- preciate even single-fold! I've met my share of fellow tourists and they have been (98%) some of the nicest. people in the world. That small percentage of turkeys (2%) doesn’t contain too many Canadians - lucky for our national image! SIGHTSEE YOUR OWN CITY! 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