behavior or life- what to think or how to han- dle it. I was divorced four years ago. Our two girls, 15 and 17, are with me. For the first two ask hayden stewart ”~ Freelance Counsellor Hayden ‘Stewart may be reached at 261-6242 for appointments for individual, family or group counselling. style. I have always been rather cheered by those kids and kind of proud of them. That was before it happened to me! Now I don’t know December 30 - January 25 Venus journeys in Sagit- tarius. Her creative and Spiritualizing impulse enriches the expanding, well- wishing, jovial Sagittarian in- fluence which so well characterizes the Christmas, New Year festivities. Aries, Leo, Sagittarius will find Venus most enticing during this time; Aquarius, Libra will be on a mental high;. Virgo, Pisces may. Gemini, blame Venus for excess emo- tional pressures. Scorpio, Capricorn, Taurus, Cancer, will have a smooth sailing through the Christmas season, ARIES March 21 to April 20 Will travel in far off places or be visited by friends from abroad. Will experience a great emotional and spiritual uplift. national ywea fitness leadership course Vancouver anit Mutt ard AW Tey years after the divorce I kept away from other men but over the last two years I have been getting closer and closer and friendlier and friendlier TAURUS April 21 to May 21 Venus spelis out formation’ “trans- in partnership relations, infusion of new en- thusiasm and renewed zest for life. GEMINI May 22 to June 21 Put away the practical, reasoning brain mind, Tet the holiday spirit entice you into unexplored areas of living. CANCER June 22 to July 23 As always, Christmas will find the scason most touching and rewarding both in friendship or relations. work NATIONAL YWCA FITNESS LEADERSHIP COURSE The 40 hour course is designed to provide women and men with the opportunity to combine theoretical and practical knowledge that will be directty applicabte to conducting adull fitness classes The program content will consist of basic anatomy phystology. nutrition exercise tectifique exorcise physiology. program planning. leadership skits. CPA Heartsaver and practioal teaching dessions Qed) ew Cre ASRS Tayi Wary West Verwanem 07. 8 Munday: Marwry san tO D Barervey: = er Fre ta tm Mm Be 8pm 8 pm 10.00 ae 00 pen 10.00 an 2 ODE 10:00 a 3 G0 pen Drew Pre 816n 00 Acme Aree STARTS JAN. 23 REGISTER AT Program ARoyiot ation Vancouver YWOA S80 Ourrand Street Vancaniver HC VOC ZR 683-2531. 212 212 with Kevin. We are, in the past six months, in an involvement that is a great joy to me (and to Kevin, I must say) and that has the obvious approval of the girls. They like Kevin very much and do‘everything they can to. make it possible for Kevin and me to have a happy time together. This includes get- ting along by themselves on those occasions when I ‘sleep over’ at Kevin's place. Kevin has never siept . at our place. I have always felt that’ would not be in very good taste. So, even. when we have a long evening together and the. girls are sound asleep, I pack Kevin off to his own piace rather than have him sleep in the same house as this single parent and her two ‘‘children’’. I have con- Sidered that to be ‘‘good behavior’? on my part. But last night the girls approach- you and your stars July 24 to August 23 Love call should be at its seasonal high whether relating to mate, partner - in romance or new social aquaintance. ; Angust 24 Exert your level best to at- tain domestic harmony, reconcile old grudges, let your hair down, allow the mind to vacation for a while. ed me as though they had something important on their minds and told me that they think I am being bypocritical. **Phoney”’ is their word for it. The older one came right out with, “‘If you are sleeping with Kevin at his house, how come you are being so proper and prim about him sleeping here?’’ As I say, I thought I had been very thoughtful of THEM, and now I am called phoney! I must say I was almost speechless. 1 didn’t know what to say. I’ve told them I'd think about it. What do YOU think? . STEWART: Young people, at least many of them, are taking the lead in encourag- ing us all to come out of whatever closets we are choosing for hiding places. My hat is off to them. Do they sense, do you sup- pose, that you feel guilty LIBRA September 24 to October 23 Will travel to visit relatives, friends, family and enjoy the ‘‘change of air’’ greatly. New vocational and business opportunities beckon. 2 SCORPIO October 24 to November 22 Resist a spending fever whether in personal outlays or speculative projects, remember, tomorrow is another day! C7 - Wednesday, January 11, 1984 - North Shore News The children do not approve QUESTION: On a few occa- sions J have heard of children telling their parents that they do not approve of the parents’ about sleeping with Kevin anyplace — his place or yours? Do you suppose they feet you are doing something you don’t feel comfortable with, but doing it anyway, at HIS place, because there you feel safer from gossip or discovery or whatever? They may not quite know it, but they may be saying, ‘“‘Hey, mom, when are you going to make up your mind? If you are not ready to go swimming, why sit around the pool? You are the one who will have to do some straight talk- ing and straight listening with yourself. It may mean back- ing off, or it may mean plunging in. But when it’s neither one, it’s hard on you and hard on the kids. What do YOU hear from your Self? SAGITTARIUS November 23 to December 21 Abundance of vital energy and magnetism makes you a charming companion and a social success. CAPRICORN December 22 to January 20 Surround yourself with friends and company to pro- tect you from extreme sen- sitivity and touchiness you may now be subjecied to. BEDDING EXTRAVAGANZA! COMFORTERS and SHEET SETS QUESTION: Do you care to comment on Prime Minister Trudeau and his peace ef- forts? I find it rather difficult to trust the man. What is he really up to? STEWART: D&you want an intelligent answer or would you rather hear me _ blurt something? Here’s an un- thinking blurt. If all the angels on earth and in space were having a hard time mak- ing some progress toward peace and the devil himself came along with a plan that might possibly contribute even an infinitesimal bit to progress toward peace, he’d have my backing. (End of blurt.) In other words, I’m for giving Trudeau the backing he needs. Give him a chance. He may have something. Pray he has! AQUARIUS January 21 to February 19 Much popularity and social success. Make the best of it, seek to advance your vocational aims and goals. PISCES Febraary 20 to March 20 Avoid impulsiveness, short tempers which might taint the deep feelings you approach the Christmas season with. HOROSCOPE READINGS, COUNSELLING - (415) - 921-1192 or write to author 2640 Greenwich #403, San Francisco, CA 94123; Read Milo Kovar’s NEW AGE ASTROLOGY GUIDE 1984 - $2.50 at Seymour Books, 1637 Lonsdale Ave., NO. VAN., also FIVE KEYS TO INNER WISDOM $6.00; ASTROLOGY A to Z.