QUESTION: Would you
care to ‘comment on the
psychological. undergirding

‘phenomenon . which

n--for my. enjoyment?
Why is it that people who are
tak in’

QUESTION: I'm doing

something that everyone
seems to think is all wrong.

Im carrying a gradge and I

want to keep on doing it. I
was cruelly shafted and I
won't rest til I've evened the
score. For me to calmly sit
and take what was handed
out to me and my loved ones
without raising a hand would
be weak and irrisponsible. I
dare you to deny that.
People tell me to forgive and
forget. That is a pions bunch
of horse feathers. Am I a

A land of

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they have roundabouts.
Everywhere. They're like
traffic islands in the middle
of the intersections. In some
places where they didn’t
have the roundabout, they
painted them on the road.
Actually, once you catch on
to the hang of it, it works just
fine. and if you miss your
turn off, you simply keep
going around and around
until you catch the right off
ramp.

Sitting on the right side of
the car while driving on the
left was no real problem. In
fact, it seemed to come
rather easy.

programme or a group that
they consider to be “im-
portant” or “worthwhile,”
allow themselves to become
objectionable in their
pushing of the thing that is
dear to their hearts? It can
be stopping smoking or

man or a mouse? I'm writing
off the top of my head and as
you can guess I am very
angry. Pll stay that way until
get even. Anything you say

will sound Uke sheer
stupidity to me unless you
tell me to go ahead.

STEWART: Go ahead!
You've blown your top
now and I hope you feel
somewhat better for it.
You've got a lot of guts you
know, to plan on something
which you yourself say

quaint villages

Those big ‘M’ roads are no
fun. Not that they're dif-
ficult. In fact, they're rather
easy if you can drive. They
go fast and you quickly learn
that the outside lane is for
passing only. If you sit out
there and dawdle the
following cars and trucks
will simply push you out of
the way. They follow close.

The one big thing you will
notice is the lack of pollution
control equipment. We had
forgotten how much. all

those vehicles can smell
without that special
equipment.

And another shock is

using their self-serve petrol
pumps. At a price slightly

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-all wrong.” In a way, you're

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jogging or eating sensibly or
going to church or saving the
seals or whatever. Many of
these causes are quite ad-
mirable and rate support.
But why oh why. do so many
of the supporters go about
their promotion of worthy

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on your own. (How you must
wish you had more support
and backing from some allies
‘in your dilemma.) In another
way, you're not alone at all.

together. This is the only

dance in town, this life we

are living together.
Some. bright guy said,

“You just can't sink another

person's end of the boat and

keep your own end afloat”.
Think about it.

more than double ours,
those little dials simply fly.
It's a good idea to fill up
when your gauge registers
about 1/2 full. Otherwise
you'll be coughing up about
20 pounds a hit and that
works out to $44.

But Britain remains a land
of country lanes and quaint
villages. Stay off the big
roads and discover these
little out of the way places
and the driving will be ac-
tually a pleasure, especially
if you're in the off season. In

fact the biggest danger you .

will face is rubber necking at
the castles and villages along
the way when you should be
watching the road.

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programmes in such ob-
jectionable ways? The thing
that bothers me most is the
way they so often talk as
though their new cause is
what the world has been
walting for and has never
until

seen our group
discovered it not long ago.
And the next most

bothersome matter comes
across as “Do this (or believe
this) exactly as we tell you to
and everything will be
perfect” Are you bothered
by this sort of thing too, or
am I the only one that has
this resentment?

Cll - Wednesday, November 4, 1981 - North Shore News

~~

STEWART: You are not the
only one, but you are the
only one you need to be
concerned about. The kind
of things you are talking
about are not amongst my
favourites, but I have
decided, long since, that I
am not going to become

' “attached” to the causes or

to the way they are
promoted, by getting all het
up about them. Even if J
oppose them in ways that are
accepted and promoted by
others, then I, too, am
partially controlled by the
very causes I disown.

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objectionable as dedicated
evangelism on behalf of a
cause.

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