7 QUESTION: . ‘Aren't. sports.
ws i. te be goed for you? —

‘My: parents have ‘not. dis.
severest that. yet. ?m thirteen:

“Can't. you do-

“Why don’t you get. inter-.

ested in'something that isn’t
. 80 ‘dangerous?”’..-
_alwdys ‘want me. to read: or

«They

study er take mp 2 musical:

‘instrument or ‘some stupid

thing. I ‘can’t go toa ‘practice
yelling at'me. And ‘another:

. thing: fs - they won't ever
watch.me play.:‘The other -
guys | ‘parents — ‘come to the.
_ games but not mine. The

other. guys don’t like thelr
'. parents to come they say, bat

I think ‘they are really glad

they come. Well, my ques- —
_ tion is aren’t sports sappered

to be good for you? -. =

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‘STEWART:
your - question!- Sure ‘sports.
‘vare-" good . ‘for’ you. .
peanut butter.:
sara’ heck of a lot of peanut ~
ee ‘butter; and don’t eat: ‘anything -
| iy else: ‘7 e not. too cool: When *
i oe - your da oo
a hocke,. Besides. being fun: E oy says, “Can't you do
. think they are real character:

» he-may-b ee
7 builders don’t you?. But. ‘my ; y.: e ‘say ing,’ I wish .

_.. you-would do somethin; e
a dad: keeps saying ~ stupid. af g else
_ things like, ;
anything | ‘but play games”? ”
and my mother’s favourite is, _

interested i in games at all, or |
.,.if- you ‘played the. sax: by the.
hour. and ‘never did any

Gee nee

7 t think they just want you to
OF a> game: without” ‘them “round out your whole life
“more than you. have and

there is nothing much wrong: >

. ‘QUEST: Ni: |

You we loaded _

So” is*
, But if youeat

anything but play. games?’’,. |

besides - playing: games”. If

»you read all day and were not |

homework and. didn’t ‘have |

any. “friends and ‘didn’t: play
any. games, you’d’ probably
have your parents at: you. to

do something “else besides. I

with that. know a girl ‘about: -

your. age” that" won't do.

can get away. with: it), except -
listen to Elvis records. All.
_ day! Her parents are scream-
ing | at eoecae Can't you do

My ‘husband —
and J. have been married -
almost 13 years. ‘We have 3 |

children, 7, 9 and: 11. The |
middle one is a girl. Up to
this -. point. .we: have. mever..
been away from our children. |

hava all alent aver ‘with - :
of | -COUFSe,. ‘but we

ah Fesiwes never. ears SWAY ant ot.

Na ae

town without all. hres. of.

i them. My husband now has a.

2: chence [in fact it Is. almost an
. obligation] | to.
: Important seminar in connec: . ve
" tion with his work. It will be:
held in'a lovely, ‘pact of. the
. States ‘Where: I have mever:

attend. —

” My husband, out of the.

; : Pad told me he'd like me to.

go. He had. ‘figured out the

1% costs, had arranged for time
. off so we could holiday for a
week or ten days after “

seminar, and.asked me to
find someone. to stay ‘with tho
kids, oo

1 tried my ‘aunt who lives in
Lethbridge and when I found °
she couldn’t come, I very
systematically checked. out.

_ Dishonesty worries |
aspiring politician —

QUESTION: For. ‘two’ years .,
now, since I was ‘14, I have:

had an interest in politics and
have had it:in mind that I.

would. like to go into politics ©

for my life work. Pve been

planning to study law and

then move from there Into
politics. But the more I look
Into it the colder my feet get.

Pm learning more and
more. about how much ‘of
politics {6 dishonest and
hypocritical and I don’t think

Pd be ablo to hack it. And I

don’t like “my party right or

wrong’. There's Gor toboa

better way. ts

1 think I'm boginning to
back off because of all tho
infighting ond. dishonesty.
What do you think about ao
young guy planning o on going
Into politics?

STEWART: If you go ‘into

politics, there is no doubt you
. will find a lot of these things —
‘you don’t like. But, if 1 knew —
of a young politician who
hates dishonesty and hyop-.
crisy and infighting and ‘“‘my
party right or wrong" and
who feels “‘there’s GOT to be
a better way’’, I would try to
find out if he has some brains
and gumption and if the
answer is“yes’, then by golly
he’d have my vote! |

We NEED people who.
hate what you. hate. We
NEED integrity and caring in
politics and I hope you will..
keep on cherishing those
splendid traits and give us a
well-prepafed young man we

‘gan learn to trust as our

servant and representative.

“anything oh but | Tisten ‘to. —

them, ‘‘and,”’ (as Lily Tomlin _

-You know how a. coach likes -
-to have .a player who. cnn

defense’ in hockey, ‘or , ns
_switch hitter i in baseball or a_

_Kick?, Well all your folks are.

- also at getting good grades _
friend to have around at .
home, don’t ‘specialize: ‘SO.

_ Sports. So, try being’ @ sport |

_ was. And ’'m a I got into 2 ie

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before. we. go away. Now,

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horrified at our even ‘consi-
- Stranger”’.

- have upset me a lot and my.

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clearly and are planning on fi
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to them: some ‘more. to find

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your plan, but. to. find out if.
they have some information |
or insight that you have not
considered. If they have —
nothing to: add to what you - |
have already considered, I'd
say, go ahead and have a
good time. Prepare the kids |
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ability to be more indepen-
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