Spirituality AT APPROXIMATELY 4 p.m. on Good Friday, | yelled at my husband in the best fishwife fashion. This was not supposed to happen. It was supposed to be a spiritual day. ft was a minor incident — my husband was trying to get some test and i wanted to talk to him — but u confirmed for me that it’s not aiways easy leading a spiritual life. I think a lot more about spirituality these days. Maybe I've just seen one too many articles on the reconstructive surgery boom (as im ‘Liposuction helped me believe in myself’). Maybe { think too much about parents who have given up criticizing television and movies and who, in apathy or despair, simply dump their children in front of the latest elec- tronic offerings. Maybe it’s because | had my first child six months ago. On the hopeful side, it appears many Canadians think there is life beyond our relentlessly material world. : According to a study released in March by University of Lethbridge sociologist Reginald By Catherine Atyeo Conirituting Writer Bibby, seven in 10 Canadians believe in life after death, five in 10 believe in heil, about half the population say they pray weekly and six out of 10 believe in ESP. Of course, just because people say, ‘OK, you can put me down for believing in hell,*" doesn’t necessarily mean they are trying to make room for spirituality in their daily life. The study confirmed that most Canadians aren’t flocking to a church to share their spirituality with others; only 23 per cent of Canadians now attend church regularly, compared with seven out of 10 in the 1950s. Though I happen to attend church regularly, I’ve never been arrogant enough to believe that one can only pursue a spiritual life via. an organized religion. In fact, } know that some bitter and disgruntled ex-members of churches would) maintain it’s harder to pursue a spiritual path within an organized religion. In- 44 ...0only 23 per cent of Canadians now atterid church regularly. 9? deed, many daily experiences can be spiritual: hiking in the moun- tains, walking your dog, lying in bed with your infant and countless more. What concerns me is this: many have abandoned the church ard Fazay, Aprit 19, Et AER SACD RAL TPT TAL EE aE TE have chosen nat to expose their children to any religious eaperi- ence. But what have they replaced it with? For a lot of fotks, |} fear, it's not a heckuva lot more than soc- cer, Bart Simpson and the shopp- ing mail. While I have nothing against soccer, Bart and shopping per se, they don’t exactly speak to the spiritual needs of an individu- al. Taking care of our spiritual side, |! offer humbly, doesn’t mean getting your tea leaves read once a month, or dragging the old man and the kids off to church at Christmas and Easter. As Webster’s dictionary defines it, the spirit is an animating or vital principle that gives life to physical organisms. We're talking pretty basic, here. Taking care of your spirit is not an option cut of a list of multiple choices. You can’t simply choose the emotional, sexual and mental categories and not expect certain effects if you ignore the spiritual. Though trained formally as a scientist, the Swiss psychiatrist 199: - North Shore News - 7 is lost in a material world and psychologist Carl Jung had an intense, lifelong interest in the spiritual side of human beings. In his largely autobiographical book ‘‘Memories, Dreams, Reflections,’’ he writes about the effects of an impoverished spiritual fife: ‘‘] have frequently seen people become neurotic when they content themselves with in- adequate or wrong answers to the questions of life. They seek posi- tion, marriage, reputation, out- ward success or money and re- main unhappy and neurotic even when they have attained what they were seeking. Such people are usually confined within too nar- row a spiritual horizon.”’ This isn’t just anyone’s opinion. Cart Sung is considered one of the giants in the study of the human mind and behavior. } wonder what Jung would have to say about the bumper sticker I’ve seen that seems to sum up these times: ‘‘The one with the most toys in the end wins.”’ Catherine Atyeo is a Vancouver freclance writer. Patronage is the name of the game Dear Editor: Whenever the provincial elec- tion is called the Secred Party will have a power base which will pay off handsomely, You only have to go to the Union of B.C. Municipalities Convention to appreciate how complete Socred control over municipal councils is. There, from the little towns of British Colum- bia, are the aldermen and mayors who some time in the past were urged to run for local council, usually by the local Socred- dominated business community. After getting their local train- ing, many of them will go on to Victoria to serve as MLAs. By so doing, they will continue to bond between Victoria and the grass roots provincial hinterland. In the small and medium-sized towns in B.C. there exists a close relationship between municipal councils, the local press, and the business community. Together they determine the economic, po- litical, and social climate within their jurisdiction with the press playing a key role in keeping things under control. To ensure control over municipalities, Victoria has work- ed out a remarkable scheme. Grants to municipalities to pro- vide adequate services, to renew a failing infrastructure and meet environmental challenges, fall far short of what is needed. Unconditional provincial grants to the District of North Van- couver, for example, are less to- day than they were 10 years ago, even chough the provincial budget has more than doubled in that time; and even though both Or- fawa and Victoria have dumped numerous additional and expen- sive responsibilities into the municipal courtyard without compensation. But Socred-controlled councils rarely speak up. Councils make up for this shortfall by raising taxes to homeowners instead. Either that, or they pose as champions of the taxpayers and cut badly need- ed services. On the other hand, municipalities, at least those which see the Socred ‘‘light,’’ will get goodies handed out by Victoria for special community projects under programs such as GO B.C. Funding for such projects is money that should have gone to municipalities in the first place. Until it is understood and changed, the Socred power base will remain intact and the Socreds will laugh all the way to Victoria on election day — dire predictions of their imminent defeat noi- withstanding. Ald. Ernie Crist District of North Vancouver Ceeacce CKCCCEELS. < Speed up Westview, Ms Johnston Dear Editor: I note that the Westview overpass is on the back burner, due to a lack of a final high- ways ministry budget (‘Westview project put on hold,’’ April 5). I have written on this topic before and no doubt will do so again. For years nothing was done, then plans were discuss- ed; then the green light was given for Lonsdale; then the great debate of diamond versus Joop raged on; now we must await a provincial budget. With the current mess in Victoria, that may be a long time. Perhaps our only salvation is’ that the former highways minister is now the premier. Can you speed up this project, Madame premier? Jeremy Dalton North Vancouver History will be the Judge Dear Editer: British Columbians should take note: over the past four years we have been witness to an amazing phenomenon — the wilful, calculated and seemingly in- evitable destruction of a man’s career on a scale heretofore in- conceivable to a believer in justice and democracy. There will be lessons to be learncd when the fever has sub- sided and cooler, more sane, minds may assess the record of political deceit imprinted upon the public process by numerous per- sons of influence and power in government, business, the media and other spheres. And there can be no doubt that history, if it aligns itself with the truth, will judge Bill Vander Zalm quite differently than do his cur- rent pack of detractors. Adrian du Plessis Vancouver Remember the Polar 8 Dear Editor: Re: Polar 8 - Versatile Pacific lay-offs On behalf of North Vancouver Liberals, I wish to express our concern with Versatile Pacific’s current difficulties. There can be no doubt that had the Federa! Government been genuine ia its commitments to the people of North Vancouver re- garding the construction of the Polar 8 project, Versatile Pacific would not be facing this crisis. We are certain that the people of North Vancouver will not have forgotten this Polar 8 fiasco when they elect their new Member of Parliament. Vincent Santacroce President - North Vancouver Liberal Riding Association