north shore news Avene NEWS photo Cindy Goodman AMES Nicholson Strikes a pose. More peopie are discovering yoga as a kinder, gentler workout. Nicholson leaches. ashtanga, a physical form of yoga that uses fluid movement to connect a series of strengthening tures, of form’ manifestation, ‘thi place-of slower-moving spirir, are. microcosm set within the macrocosm of space; and since, there is no separation on any, level whatsoever, we are the very. essence of the dust of stars which is starlight: - We-are the light, the pro- jector and the screen upon Which we project. The film is the mythological i imagery of our dreams. Our “considera- "are. the way we put the ars together in our minds. “Only lincar, tinie-trapped thoughts prevent us from seeing the staggering beauty of our entirety. Knowing this, ; see the truth of my friend, Dr. C: Spezzano’s, tollowi MGA Re Gee written by y -a movie in which you are the der myst tw ee oe ee aS message. From a 1992 newsletter (worth careful “-reflection): “The story of your life is Think of it as writer, director, producer, ‘star, etc, What type of movie has your life been? Horror, drama, tragedy, comedy, mur- , adventure and war stories are a few af the many movies thar we write. The key question to ask your- self about the movie of your life is the key question of all - psychology — ‘what purpose does this serve?’ “One of the general pur- poses that fic all stories is this: ‘I, who am innocent, have been made the way Tam by what others have done to me. Iam living proof of their treachery.’ “Unless our story . our story as an attack that feigns innocence. All sufter- ing, at the deepest level, is attack under the guise of innocence. “For years I have looked for the one sustaining princi- ple in psychology that creates . traps. I found that our family traps set up the patterns of relationship and victim traps. And lately I have discovered the aspect of ‘our story’ that patterns family dynamics. Our story is there to celebrate our specialness cither through suffering or grandivity. But it belies and betrays our great- Ness, Our purpose and our Joy. “Your story is completely pervasive and addictive. It builds your separate special- ness, your personality and your ego. It crystallizes you, and this leads you toward your death. Your story is killing you. All of this, just to support some concepts about yourself. It hardly seems worth it when you realize that the cost of such a ven- ture is disappointment and death. And everything you try to prove about yourself comes from something you don’t actually believe. “For instance, if | were to try to prove my intelligence to you, you would quickly suspect the opposite, or, at the very least, my insecurity. Your story is out to prove something about you and others. Why bother using your precious learning time? Why use your time for heal- ing, lové and joy to support a story that doesn’t even sup- Port you -— the real you? “Your preoccupation with self is like | holding a mirror — it gets in the way. Making your whole life all about vou is not only imma- ture, but is the death knell to your relationship. “Our preoccupation with ourselves creates ‘on- sciousness, Which is what builds personality, bur is the opposite of spontaneity and joy. Everything we do or that happens to us that does not bring joy and happiness is just there to support our self concept “It is important co real the crauble your stary brings to your relationships. $ you are the hero of your story, you make all others into supporting actors and actresses. Given that this is state, we are to comparison, competition TUTTLE Soe a PERE LE ED Des PTET EE DEDE HEED COTE PEER ECE TORTS Sunday, June 7, 1998 — North Shore News ~ 27 y Layne Christensen News Reporter ALANIS Morissette and Jennifer Aniston are doing it. So are Sting and David Duchovny. s yoga and voga is hor. Madonna has also joined the celebrity ranks of the newly t appearance on aterial-turned- the virtues tne it had “released” yoga hoon, the # "000+ ¥ anol practice is going mainstream. Sail, there are skeptics. “T think it tightens some people,” said recent voga con- vert James Knowles. “Most people have this notion that yoga is about somebow, in a diaper with his tongue sticking out... that whole guru aspect.” For Knawles and his wife Julie Prescon, who work long hours running Word ‘Trib successtul marketing and management company, voga is the best form of stress release. “I used to go te the gym, buc it strikes me that the gym is more of the same — all that pounding and noise,” says and power struggle. “Even our success goes to the hero of our story and not to our success and joy. “Our success storics subtly rob us of the natural joy and receiving we would have from giving. It just adds to our story which we tell to everyone given half a chance. But hidden under every self concept, no matter how bright and shiny it looks, is a hell, a place we are impris- oned in pain. And still our self concepts don’t compare to the selves they hide. ; “Our first goal is therefore one of healing, to make our nightmares into happy dreams, for that is what is necessary for us to wake up to the real world beyond sto- ries. That which crystallizes us, makes us old and kills us. Whatever changes our self concepts youthens and saves us. All pain and deadness can only be part of your story. “It seems a worthy fune- tion to explore our stories for the havoc they wreak on our lives and the lives of those we love, It is time we turned off the automatic copy writer within us and censciously choose a vibrant and happy story. It is time we learn to ~ Know les. This works it (stress) y that is more calm- James Nicholson has prac: tised yoga for 20 vears and teaches a form of youa called ashranga or power \ says voga is the perfect workout for the new millennium, “In che '70s, it was jogging. In the ’80s, it was acrobics, In the °90s, cross-training and uiaz thlons. Whe s always been Yoga is a kinder,. gentler workout, a workout for the mind as weil as the body... | And let there be no mistake, adds Nicholson, vog2 is awork- out. Ar 41, he's in. the: best shape of his He owes his lithe, muscular frame to Yora. Knowles, a hard-core moun- tain biker, finds voga the perfect counterpoint to trail riding because it stretches as well, as strengthens his muscles. . Bur it’s thé mind-body con- nection thar has him hooked, sO! much so that he’s brought Knowles in for yoza workouts Monday and Wednesda evenings at his company’s fo! space in Lower Lonsdaie’ Empire Theatre building. ‘The: sessions are open to the public. Call World Tribe at,990-5185 become harmless instead of living a life of veiled attack. For it is only harmlessness that allows us to see our fel- low humans as innocent. It is this harmlessness that leads us to'see all things bright and new, within a world that blesges rather than threatens to snuff out our short fi “The choice is ours whether to live consciou. or to live at the effect of old programmes that no longer serve us. Lf something is not tor healing or happiness, ir does nor serve us. The true you is somcone who doesn’t need to defend or hold on, but someone whose greatness empowers others’ greatness. Your happiness is the bese gift you can give to your partner, your children, your parent your friends, the world, an God. It’s your choice! bo you want it all, or do. you want your story?” Robers Aiken is an inte nationally known professional astrolagian and therapentic connselor/teacher/writer with 40 years’ experience. 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