C3 - Sunday, April 8, 1984 - North Shore News

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won't tall out and you won't response. Hinckting told last
go blind You should explain Wednesday's audience that it
“But whose needs are being to your child that there are ois natural for children to

met here? Children don't appropriate times and not think their mother ate
have the knowledge. expe appropmate times, but if he something to pet pregnant,
riehee of emotional wants to do it, we as this ois part of the
Maturation They are understand It teels zpood " “Manutacturer’ stage But
vulnerable 7“ Hinckling talked about for a Grade 12 student to
The offender teaches the three stages of a child's soll think that. is surprising
child that she is responsible, development geographic The girl explained that the
asoif She as to blame. and Stage. manufacturer stage “powdered milk’ notion
uses threats. coercion, and and reporter stage The came trom when she was in
bribes to maintain secrecy, geographic stage includes the grocery store with her
she continued “lt’s amazing children who stall don't tather once, and a lady was
how hids are so respectiul ot Know where babies come buying a lot of powdered
someone who's hurting from The manutacturer milk When she asked her
them *“" Stage ois when the child father why, he innocentls
Usually these attaies begin Knows he came trom replied. "She's probably
between the aves S to tl, omother ’s stomach. but poor and has tots of
rather than puberty, and deesn’t know how set. ex: children
nay Continue tor tive vears cept through fantasies And With three children of her
or so. until maybe the child the reporter stage is when own, Hinckling has da wide
understands the situation the ctiald is desperate for range of experience to draw
better and wants to have a information, but would die trom, and she says what she
normal lite Melmechuk Lo ask did when her children were
adds that the offender has Due tO some parents’ in- reaching puberty, was to
sex with the child tor reasons hibitnon to talk about sex give them a list of Changes
of power. father than sexual with their children. same that will happen to their
dttrachion, to feel control. at children don’t understand bodies as well as the op
he doesnt in business of ‘the tacts of ite’ until a vers POSITE sex
Malrlage late age, which Hinckling Hinckling says that

It a child tells a parent saves is dangerous She says a parents shouldn't be insulted

NEWS photo jan Smith
there is someone abusing great number of abortions when their children come

MEG HINCKLING, a worker with Planned Parenthood, says she is concerned at the lack of

them. it aus amportant to are done on married home with dirty stories) or suxual knowledge a large number of teenagers and young adults have. And as a nurse, she
Make a statement to the women who don't know the rude words, because she says became interested in rectifying that.

child that vou belreve her. facts WS ad Cpolden opportumity’

wes not her tault and vou're Ata lecture Hinekling for parents to teach their

going to do something about gave to Girade 12 students, values to the child 4 tato

wo Melmechuk emphasized She was describing the ter “Teach them sour moral OL

“Tt. verx rare that a child tihizahion process, when one Values Parents are the sex-

will he and be willing to po girl spoke oup, father in ual experts’
through the whole court shock, and said. “1 thought

process 7 babies came when mothers

Where Melmechuk con drank powdered milk
centrated on the abuses ot Surprised by the age of the HARRISON
sexuality, Hinckling 1] GALLERIES
lustrated the yovs, and talked PARK ROYAL
dbout the nmatural sexual Easter SOUTH
Currosities of ohildren Have a letter sent to a 926-2615

You should capress a child from the Easter

; Bunny — Send $1.00 to oo ;

Positive Message about Forget-Me-Nots Celia Collin Exhibition
serxudlity. she said Con Service. #218-810 W. of new works
trary too what out mothers Broadway. Van. April 18 24/84
told us. we Know now that et V6B 4C9.

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