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the new idea they have? The
woman and the man. who
‘spoke second and third did
_the very same thing - just as
I expected ‘they. would. That.
sort of thing really turns me
- off. Why do they do it?

STEWART That bothers me
too. Although. ‘it doesn’t
_ bother me as much as it did. :
before. I discovered. how.
much I. cheat myself. ‘by -
concentrating on the speak-
er’s. shortcomings instead of -
‘being open to something I
may, need which. he might

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‘some of the things he. says
‘and remain selective about
the others. However, it is too
costly for me to discard HIM.
When I do that, I. find i
become ‘amazingly ‘similar to

the guy” I am refusing to
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religious. speakers’’. are all.
wrong: You let yourself ‘Catch
the bug that bit the. other
guy! Probably you can’t
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“you resented ‘so: much. Did §
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” QUESTION: Why should I
 have'to give up my personal
“rights just becauso I am
martled? :

persons who, (because they
are preoccupied. with ‘their.
tights), become stone blind
about ‘‘wrongs’’. If you be
demanding your tighis, find
yourself entering into totally

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"QUESTION: I see. by
paper that some. group of
beauty contest hopefuls have
named Anita Bryant as
_ American-of-the-Year or .
.some such. thing. The rumn-

ners up In thelr voting were
Jerry Towls and Bob Hope. |
What's the matter with our
Canadian Beauties? Why
don’t they get together and

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freedom?

selfish and unloving beha-
viour, then you can assume
that the results will not
contribute to your life, nor to:
your marriage. Let me give

come and live with you and:
your wife. It would mean that .
your two kiddies would have —
to move. out of their room and
sleep in the basement. But
that is what you | want,

the-Year is? ‘Why are we
neglected? Why can’t we be.
told who our great Canadians: —
are? How will w we ever know

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right to .-be that sort of f}.
person. The other people ba
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