AN we, Sunday, January 30, 1994 - North Shore News ~ 12 U A special feature of the North Shore News b | Contemporary wedding customs have roots in ancient history “TRADITIONS ARE a big part of wedding ceremonies, yet many peo- ple don’t know how these traditions began. These are some examples of the roots of those traditions: & What is the origin of the word - “bridegroom”? | The word groom is probably a corruption of the Old English “guma” meaning man, The bride- groom is really the bride’s man. 85 How did courtship evolve? The roots of courtship lie in the courtly love traditions of 12th-cen- tury France. Knights would sing adoring songs. of fove to their ladies. The code of conduct known as chivalry also played a role in the evolution of today's familiar courtship rituals, Later, in Victoriin times, when long engagements were the norm, courting involved written declara- tions of love and short chaperoned visits between the couple. M Why does the traditienal groom-to-be seal his love for his fiance with a diamond engage- ment ring? Archduke Maximitian of Austria oegan this tradition in the 15th cen- tury when he pledged his trath to Mary of Burgundy. @ Why do many brides wear gloves? In medieval times, the would-be groom offered tokens of love to engage a woman's heart, Many gentlemen sent gloves to their loved one as a proposal of marriage, and if she wore the gloves to church on Sunday it signatied her acceptance. & Why are diamonds considered the ultimate symbol af love? Millions of years ago nature invested great heat and pressure to crystallize a single diamond, form- ing the hardest known substance, Often found in a natural octahe- dral form. a diamond appears us two pyramids set base to base, which in the early ages could not be split. That is why the diamond became a symbol of an impenetrable bond, CHOCOLATERIE Benaud Callebaut \" Provide the perfect finishing touch to your special day. A custom mini box, filled with 2 of Bernard’s decadent Belgian chocolates, tied with the ribbon and flower of your choice. Boxes can be printed wich your names and wedding date. West Vancouver 1836 Marine Dr. 925-3080 Vancouver Richmond 2698 Granville & ftth 736-5890 _ 275-1244 EEE NONE aD #2 Rd. & Blundell 3] Why does the bride siand to the left of the groom during the wedding ceremony? representing enduring and eternal love. The mysterious inner fire of a diamond was likened by some to love's passion. See page 21 BEAUTIFUL WEDDING By THE ., BEAUTIFUL When you want your special day to be picture perfect why settle for anything less? Come and view the spectacular. beaucy and setting of West Vancouver's Gleneagles Golf Course. TWO BEAUTIFUL BANQUET ROOMS FOR GROUPS FOR 50-300 m Wedding Receptions » Business Meetings. Ba Company Parties >All your special events