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mom and dad to not under
stand thelr need to belong,

their need to grow,

~The teenage phase is
actually very simple,

© Teenagers build character

and strength which teaches
them how to cope with
today’s soclety, Although
teenagers are cough and hard
to handle.sometimes, please

~ try not to practise tough

Jove,

Tough love Is sometimes
helpful but not for a child
who needs guidance, love
and support, As mentioned,
we are all individuals, but we
need to be taught the differ.
ence beiween what is good
and what is bad, and what js
right and what ts not:
"Parents need to explain
why. they sometimes say no,

Please, take the time to
clearly explain why you.
don’t agree with your child's

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Explain the positive and”

4 Negative consequences of
~ their deelsions. If they still

don’t agree with you, try to

“compromise to make every. -
body happy with the deci-

er
Ifyou do not explain the

«. dangers in our society. (like.
; °° drugs, alcohol, sex, violence,
“guns and racism) and where

they will take your children,
they will certainly learn it”
first hand, That would be
the worst mistake possible.

| “Therefore, it is he pfulto 2,

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