UIC unfair to the honest? I got cut off uncmployment insurance today. I brought it on myself — couldn’t psych myself up to play their game. So I went in and told the truth and got very angry when the clerk said the Commission “was not in the business of subsidizing self- employed peopic.~ bums and the boat freaks, the hars and the cheats; not Dear Editor. I have to agree with the writer of the editorial “Parental Liability ~ -Some- thing must be done to deal with the ever imcreasing problem of juvenile delin- quency and the increasing amount of aggressive and rude behaviour of some teenagers. I am a parent of several teens, and often | ask myself as to what to do. or what I could do better, in knowingly of course — they can't figure out who they are. Those people play the game according to the rules and tell the bureaucrats exactly what they want to hear — what corresponds to their rule book and fits conveniently into a com- puter. But tell them you're trying as hard as you can to earn as much as they pay you on UIC — and you're almost suggestions is a sense of balance. There seems to be no mentioning of responst- bilities, when given free- general, and self-discipline in particular, seéms to be constantly have to deal with my children’s demands to trust them ail the way. to give them more freedoms, to treat them equal in all cases. When I try to negotiate, | am told that ‘times are diffcrent pow’ or ‘this is not the olden days." When remarking parents, and if that docs not help, the student is expelled for a few days. What would happen if | ‘expelled’ my child for a few days? In summary. the schools are copping out, the courts have no powers, the police remember Tom, your expert Hair Technician... Tom is back! at La Coupe de Ville, West Vancouver for Perming, Colonng, Highhghting, Crazy Colonng, Body Waves & Hennas Call - Va Coupe de Ville there and woulkin't they please make up the dif- ference for a few more weeks... They cut you off. Or tel you to seek some other type of employment — which would completely wreck all the gains you've made this far in the field in which you want to work. Ill survive. I'll work twice as hard and Ill survive just like the rednecks believe I have their hands tied, and I as a parent have my children compared with a shppery set of porchsteps. Perhaps it is high time, to rethink our ways of dealing with our young people, of preventing beimg played out against one another, and of starting to stop blaming each other. and everyone else collecting UIC would if we were all cut off. I don’t believe everyone would survive. And I don't believe anyone should be forced to play the govern- ment's game of fitting square pegs into circular slots by Parents’ hands are tied A sometimes frastrated parent (Name supphed) North Vancouver P.S. After all the mayhem with the year of the child, | have food for thought also: How about a Year of the Parent? No signature? Sorry, no print address numbet. If a letter writer does not wish his or her name to be published, we will print the letter over a and phone suitable pen name where the contents warrant this, although if space is tight, preference will normally be given to letters where the actual name can be used. ° Letters received “Wed.-Fri. Special Mushroom Burger & Fries” a | 89 with Cheese 2.09 DELUXE BURGERS EVERY TUESDAY 5:00 - 10:30 PM 404 LONSDALE A7-Wednesday; October 8, 1980 - North Shore News Lament for September Dear Editor: Oh, if only I could prolong The golden days of September And stretch the many tunes That morning From throats of life and death In perfect harmony; And plant a lifeless seed, a child Dropp’d by a generous flower To bloom and beautify November. greet me _ every eos Oh, if only I could prolong The songs invented by the birds, (Happy little gawks and tunes) Thanking for the sky, sun and rain, A measly breadcrumb, And for having a mate To sing to, care for and live for — To behold and enjoy when songs Of cold and darkness ride the wind And snuggle moaning up to life. Heddy Andersen Northvancouver vancouver ‘el SAVINGS 3 W777 OCT. 26th “He Fim Sue Come in and see me this Wednesday to Finiday for one ot our Specials BON VOYAGE was the message’ ta Bill McPhee from aff -his.triends| at the college tasf weekend ~ or at least #t would have: been if the bakery hadn't printed on the cake in Italian. Bal, who has. been:at, Capilano since “Pay 4”, has and started the Archives, is off to Australia this week to: holiday and gather information on contnuing education for his M.A. Fo wish him well on this trip: over fifty people turned out! for a pot luck supper ands presented him with an _ eskimo carving. JACK HODGINS: Canadian novelist, will be: the flext author in Capilano’'s Reading Sesies sponsored! by. the- Humanities Division: and the Canada Council. Hodgins wii be reading at & pm on October 16 {that’s next Thursday). Readings at! Gapilano are free and open. to anyone interested in coming. “NEED FIREWOOD? in spite of the unseasonably | weather we've had, it “#8 tiie to realize that we're! 3. approaching the gloomy winter when it’s nice to have @ fire Diazing in the:sitting room. Which brings us. to. an costs ground $95, but a cheaper source js the. pO Capilano College Rugby: team. team is raising: = ynoney fora tour of France and Switzerland in the spring and one of ther fund-raising activities is delivering spfit alder. If you would like to buy a cord (that’s 4 feet high by 8 teet wide by 4 feet deep). call the college at 986-1911, local 304 THE RED CROSS is coming to the college -- not to rescue us from any disaster {we hope), but Asather to hokd a Blood Donor Glintc, Everyone, obviously, is welcome to come and give a pint to the cause on Tuesday, October 14 fram 9:00 to 4:00 in the All College Lounge, which is tocated in A Building on the South Campus. it's unnecessary to go into detall about why and how urgently blood is needed -- let's just get out * there and help. _ A LIMITED NUMBER OF SPACES is oti! available for beginners and intermediates in the evening typing courses at Cap The times are Monday and Wednesday trom 7 to 800 pm and the cost Is $26 SO It you're interested, cali 986.1911. local 235. Also, the Business Office Training 6 month program will be tatung in new students in October Oct 27 to be precise If you “would like to train as a clerk typist. stenographer or bookkeeper call (he number above and make inquiries as soon as possible CAPILANO COLLEGE 987-4131 ALL DAIRY PRODUCTS MADE WITH REAL ICE CREAM 2055 Purcell Way North Vancouver | Up the Hill from the Coach House 16 i} Harr Sarloar tor Women & Mon V25t VOtN SE 0% ttowk off Lonndate) 080-2825 : 1564 Marme OF West Vancouver 826-6026