Qu STION: You once wrote a piece about: not liking certain people. In it you. “quoted a. little . verse shout 3. Doctor’ Fell. Would you mind printing the poem again. and saying something about why we don't like people when there are no good reasons for not liking them?” STEWART: I may not quote the verse word for word, but as I remember it, it goes like this: Ido not like thee, Doctor Fell. The reason why, I cannot tell. A note ‘NOTE FROM HAYDEN: Good News! That. North Shore project dedicated to getting together people who are looking for com- panionship in travel, is doing CALLING ALL FISHER- MEN. “FLY-TYING—IN- TERMEDIATE?” is for all of you who don’t quite know all there is to know about that tricky little art. Don’t ever say we don't think of everything for you! Again comes the oppor- tunity for you to attend the “NIGHTSCHOOL IN A DAY”, surely one of the most enjoyable mini- holidays you can envision, where you spend the day thinking only of you and your desires, with a free lunch thrown in! Study the new brochure thoroughly and make your choice — a few interesting titles from which to choose: How do you fancy “WINE TASTING AND AP- Freelance Counsellor Hayden Stewart ma y be reached « at 261-6242 for appointments for individual, family or group counselling. His new office in the International Plaza Hotel (Open Tuesdays only) is for the convenience of North Shore residents. But this I know, and know full well, I do not like thee , Doctor Fell. _ I have a feeling there are people some of us tend to dislike, (even though we cannot come up with the reason,) because they remind us of someone who has angered us or hurt us or -cheated us or manipulated us in our earlier days. If, at the time of the unhappiness, we decided not to work through the hostility, or did not know how to work it through, it settles down in us and makes itself at home in very well. Heather tells me -there are now 74 people who are getting together and making plans of ail sorts! Remember, there is no money-raising gimmick to Night school notes PRECIATION”? This is only- from 9 to 11 (after all, you couldn’t go on tasting wine all day!), it will be $6, and the enrolment is limited, so best to pre-register. You'll sample imported wines that are available in B.C. ““SNORKLE-SWIM- MING”, will have you in the classroom in the morning, but in the afternoon you'll snorkle. for real. For $20, plus your fee, you'll get rented gear, including wet suit. What a way to go to school! “BARBEQUE COOK- ING” needs no explanation. Just come and enjoy. John Tuchin of the Vancouver Natural History Society will share his ex- Record Strong demand and higher prices for Canadian lumber and ‘plywood overseas helped Seaboard Lumber Sales Company Limited achieve record sales in 1979, said Clive D.G. Roberts, Seaboard’s President and Chief Executive Officer, at the company's 45th Annual Shareholders’ Meeting last week. The Vancouver-based wood products export company, which is owned by 22 B.C. shareholder firms operating 65 mills in the province, sold a total of $594 million Cost-Insurance-Fre- ight value last year com- pared to $383 million in 1978. Seaboard paid its shareholders dividends plus commission and freight refunds of $10.2 million said Roberts. A further $1 million aa amt alls tae oma ane: IRE Lak a RC AT ae mamaG Reale ae _discussion. ” our temperament. We have that hostility living in us. We may handle it very well most of the time, but once in a while someone says something or does something that brings back a memory of the feeling we had away back when and the feeling is with us again. Or perhaps the person in our current experience, LOOKS like our early enemy, of sounds like him, or chews his gum the same way. It’s a good scheme to deal with hostility, even if it is old stuff. Clean up your act and you.may even come to like Doctor Fell. this outfit. There's no catch. If you are interested, call iia caren neal ini Di leila ont ne eens eee, ae QUESTION: Is there such a thing as being born in the ’ time? I don't’ seem ‘to be at home. in this “age”. Most of the time I get the feeling I really . belong in my. grand- | , parents’ days. But, some of the time I feel like Tm away ahead ‘in time and that. everyone else _is lagging behind a gerieration or two. You: write: about the here and now once in a while, and I'm a guy. “who fs not content with either one of them. I don't like it HERE and I don't fit NOW. So what does all that mean for me? STEWART: [Id love to explore that one with you! Lots of people don’t like it where they are. and lots of people wish they had lived in the days of King Arthur’s knights or some such time. But you sound as though you are really wondering about whether here and now are right for you. Vancouver may not be “right” for you, and perhaps you will move. Heather at 929-3642 and ask 4 her a million questions. She's easy to talk to and has no axe to grind. pertise on “BIRD IDENTI- FICATION”, a delightful subject for this time of year particularly. After the morning lecture, there will be an afternoon field trip, a great pastime for an’ April day. On April 16th, there will be a free evening given by the U.B.C. Speaker's Bureau, in conjunction with the Planned Parenthood Association on male and - female birth control, cluding | sterilization either partner. in- for This will be at Carson Graham, at 7:30, and will be an evening at which you will be encouraged to ask questions and participate in after-tax profit was con- tributed by Seaboard sub- sidiary companies. Demand for softwoods showed the most dramatic increase in France, Ger- many, Italy and Japan with lumber shipments increasing in volume by about 21 per cent over 1978 — eight per cent more than the planned performance. And more plywood was sold to Japan in a three-week period in 1979 than had been shipped to that country in the previous three years combined. At the same time, the com- pany’'s relative share of total B.C. waterborne shipments chmbed to 35 per cent. Roberts said the rise in Europe and Mediterrancan sales was due to strong construction § activity and shifts of their traditional supply to other markets. ‘or Seaboard In Japan, success was the result of a favourable ex- change rate and availability of supply, said the president. In addition, frequent, more efficient service was provided by Seaboard’s new roll-on/roll-off vessels, the m.v. SKAUGRAN and the m.v. SKAUBORD, which started sailing in February and September respectively. For the company’s 1980 outlook, he noted that rising costs, inflation and record high interest rates, which are causing problems in North America, will have an ad-- verse effect on Seaboard's business. But he said that the good’ order file already compiled, stronger offshore markets, coupled with a broad base in the U.S. cargo market, should help Scaboard in the year ahead. ‘Limited to supply on hand But I'd suggest you get this thing worked out while you are HERE. (You might feel ~ the very same in New Zealand or in Burnaby). The aspect of your conundrum that has to do with the NOW is. a different kettle of decades. You wrote that letter in 1980. You can't pick up and move to the 1800s or _ the 1990s like you can move to N.Z. or Burnaby. Perhaps you can bring alive some of the features of another day and share them with us in this day and age. Or perhaps you can bring new in- spiration to us (in the here - JOIC® Hair Care Products Center No special orders at discount prices. Vancouver, 11th & Granville............. 736-4565 Vancouver, 11th and Arbutus “it’s the CUT that counts”’ 1981 LONSDALE AVE. + 985-9101 ime - wrong place and now) about beckoning directions you would like us to discover as we move from April to May to October to 1981 to 1991 to: 2000. Your facts are these: You live HERE, right NOW. Be content with your facts, but never settle in to being satisfied with them. Keep open and flexible right here, right now, but be alert to clues that will help you catch on to how to live here and now in ways that will make you feel at home in the universe and in your age. I have a feeling you may have something for us. \ per gait 625 =< (