35 - Sunday, December 22, 1985 — North Shore News it’s still polite to say thanks to cook DEAR MISS MANNERS — When [ was about to move from my home of many years to another stale, a farewell dinrer party was given for me by two friends. The day before the dinner, one of the hostesses called to say that she would be unable to attend because she had the chance to attend the In- dianapolis 500, but she had Prepared the food (she is a gourmet cook) and knew we would have a lovely time. She was right. and we did. My dilemma now is how do I write a thank-you note, or do I even owe her one? I have alresdy decided that her behavior makes it quite Clear where our friendship ranks in her priorities, and 1 do not plan to go out of my way to seek her company in the future, Ido not, however, want to be as thoughtless ard ia- sincere as she, GENTLE READER — Cer- tainly you owe this woman thanks for her contribution. Just because you don’t want to be friends with your cook, that doesn't mean that you can ignore her having pro- vided food for your partyful of friends. Tell her what a marvelous time you had with your GAR GR AE SE AS BP AS AP ae as 2 dl ie wa a CAPTAIN’S CATCH «. 2065 Dollarton Hwy. & OPEN 10:30 AM - 6 PM 7 DAYS d Se fe, SO, SP. Se Se, Sit. Be Hh, He receive $5.00 of the a SRES SIS, $20.00 of seafood and Christmas Combo i Buy a cultured Douglas g Fir tree 6' or larger and receive ¥ 1 Free Box of Belgian a Dairy Milk Chocolate (valued at $8.99 Ib.) or Buy a minimum of purchase of your Christmas tree at 929-1597 3 3 3 4 a a ws from all of us whose send-off dear they are to you. Then food, which made made you realize again how be effusive in praise of her Barbara & Sabre Dos Village Groom ogspa.. 4240-1425 Marine Drive West Vancouver Something & Contact lens (incl. tints) and eye wear Gift Certificates (at any value) Seasons tficclings 1242 Marine Drive Pemberton Plaza (next to Save On Foods) North Vancouver rehivg iat aac Rea RES. Christine & Toots Theo Georgia, Amanda to ali our friends thank you for your patronage in 1985. reflect how hard it will be to find a caterer of equal merit in your new hometown. CONTACT LENS CENTAE