Sea it fuels overspending From page 12 create un “acting out™ behavior which allows you to feel every feel- ing of which you're normally depzived. Signposts for shopaholic behavior The following are several reasons for exhibiting shopaholic behavior: @ Spending may be translated into “not saving” which traps many single women. Saving is a symbol that you are alone and independent financially. You may be like many women who live in a suspended state wait- ing for “Mr. Right” or the elusive “better job” to take care of you and your finances. You fee! guilty when you spend instead of saving to pro- vide for yourself, but you'd rather spend than admit that you are alone. Things can change. but live life in present tense. @ A bargain-hunter buys things not really needed to get a surge of adrenaline at the sight of a sale tag. If you tend to keep sale items like trophies in your closet as proof of success of the hunt, remember pride in your frugality is great if you need- ed the item, but unjustified if you didn’t. If you are insecure about finances, hoarding sale items until you need them won't provide a sta- ble base. Instead, take an inventory of your wardrobe and look only for those few things you need to com- plete it. You will end up saving more. > » If your home life while growing up brought about a sense of financial insecurity, it can evolve into either frugality or extravagance as an adult. Both will bring feelings of guilt, which will make the situation worse. _ Ifa parent used to get angry when bills arrived, it can haunt you as an adult whenever you spend. ASK WAYNE Graduated 1968 from the International Fabricate Institute in Silverspring, Maryland. Q: What Causes Invisible Stains? = When you eat an apple and the core turns brown after it has been exposed to the air, that’s oxidation. The natural sugar in the apple reacts to air over time and turns the fruit brown. The same thing hap- pens with invisible stains. Invisible stains are very deceiving. You may think the substance you spilled on your shirt will not stain because it did not leave a ring or spot when it dried. Or, perhaps you think you got the stain out when you blot- ted it with a damp cloth. The fact is, if any portion of the staining substance remains in the fabric, it will turn into a brown or vellow stain that, once set, is virtually impossible to remove, What You Can Do Does this mean you shouldn't take the garment to the cleaner? On the contrary, where visible stains are concerned, your cleaner can be your biggest ally - provided they know about them before cleaning. Using special chemicals, equipment, and expertise, cleaners can often eliminate an invisible stain before it sets in. CAROUSEL CLEANERS Outside iocation between Canada Trust & The Bay Mon -Wed. 6:30 to 6:30 pm Thurs.-Fr, 6:30 to 9:00 pn Saturday 6.30 to 9.30 pen Sunday 32.00 to 5:00pm 922-4811 Park Royal North Dollar Shopping Centre 929-4890 oe - + soe Be aware of your current money If you want to buy something, situation, your income and all build flesibility into your budget so expenses. Know what you can and you can save for an item you cur- can't afford on a weekly, monthly and annual basis. See Therapy page 14 Selected Hcusecoats, Nighties, Pyjamas and Loungewear Sale starts Monday, January 9/95 2417 Marine Drive, West Van 922-9615 75 STARTS MONDAY 25°50. Selected Sleepwear, Lingerie, Otto Kern Jeans Jewelry, Hosiery, $9 G99 Look Moule, 39 Poor Boy, Regular *190° Magnolia 1408 Marine Drive, West Vancouver 922-8889 It’s today’s way of meeting people that share your interests! CALL 1-900-451-4088