page 12, ‘September 29, 1976 -

QUESTION: What in the’

‘world can:you do when your.

QUESTION:

' own mother fs making a fool

of herself? My mother, who
is about 45 has been ‘a widow
since our dad died 4% years

ago and in the last couple of |
' years she has become a real.

man-chaser.- She is very
blatant and aggressive about
it and does a lot of talking
about men. It has become
very embarrassing=for . us

and sister have recently been
married, but my young

brother and I are living with

I have a ser-
lous beef about so-called AIR
CONDITIONING. There are-

‘some restdurants..on the

North Shore that are really
punishing. They blow a blast

. of cold alr at you that actually

makes it hard for you to keep
a match going long enough to’
‘light a cigarette. The wait-

_ resses recognize how un-

comfortable it is. I asked one
waitress to change our seats
to a corner where there was
less draft. She sald. “Sure,

’ Pll move you over there, isn’t
- that airconditioning awful?” ©

When it turned out te be

-almost as bad in the new
spot, I asked for the manager ©

and. complained. He said,
‘*Yes, I know it fs uncomfort-.
able at times but there’s
nothing I can do—you see
it’s automatic.” ,
’ Alr conditioning is a great
idea, but w

Hooked on. ‘youthful

QUESTION: - “When I was a
kid. I- practically fell in love
with a beautiful cld car and
‘made - up. my mind. that"
someday I'd “own it. Two.
years later I got-it. I drove ita.
year or go and then got Into a.
crash that almost totalled it. I

towed It to our backyard with
the idea of working on it and

' getting It into, shape again.

But I kept. on. putting | off.
getting at the work. I'd stand

a a look at the car and figure
. out what nesded doing and ©

I'd even trace down parta it ;
needed and buy them as soon
as I got the money. Now ou
‘won't believe this, but’:

years later that wonderfal old.
car ls “aitding: Hight where .f

Caught between wife, lover

QUESTION: “My wife and 1.

soparated a little. over two”
yoars ago. 1 had'-found it
almost:impossible to put up
with the interference of hor
relatives, who’ scemed. to |
want to run our live, There *
wero a “wholo bunch of
hassles and finally my wife
sald sho didn’t .want! mo’
around any more, At the tine

I was almost relleved and folt.

good about :onding the |

marriage. I was quite williny.

to call {¢ quits,. re fow ©
months I got very. close to:

: another. woman © (divorced)

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‘mother. She knows we are

concerned about her and that
we feel badly about her

behaviour. What can we do? .

STEWART: In the past
short time your mother has
lost her husband, and, in a
different sense, may feel that
she has “‘lost’’ her son’ and

daughter who have married.

She may be at sufficient loss

., for her to confuse what has
four kids. My older brother °

been. happening’ and to
imagine that she is losing out

‘on love. She apparently feels

it and her soiution is in‘

‘chasing’? men. What: she
needs is love. ‘Areyou four
‘kids doing everything. you
can to share love with her in

a way that gives her a feeling
of being wanted and needed?

Why. don’t the four of you get
together and ‘talk it through
in a constructive: way rather

than jut being critical of her?.

Please don't be negative and
defeatist at this’ point. Pull
together. Think things ‘out
together. Be a loving, team.
Find a way.

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STEWART: You have a.
legitimate beef! I agree that .
some places really Jhother
me. I got that same story
from a manager too. ‘‘There-
*s nothing I can do—you see.
it is automatic.” So 1
automatically. left the place.
‘Too bad bacause it is a nice
new spot that I like--except'
for the gale. Perhaps your.
letter will. encourage cust-
omers. to do ‘a’ lot of &
complaining rather than: just -.Froetance Counsellor, Hayden
putting up.with the discom- | Stewart does private counsel.
fort. Come on everybody— “ling as well-as a great deal of |
let . your, complaifits. be  9foup work. He can be %
known to the managers and informatio at 261-6242, for
be sure fo add, “if you don't © ‘Information and appol iments.

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leaving. : ' STEWART, c/e. the.North

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you are not 8 sO’ keen any more -
and yet ‘hate quit |
something that once meant
so much to you? Would you’ §
hate to have your friends |
know that: after’ all: this time
you are giving up? -

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towed it ‘and’ tt Is atill a
wreck, I still love It and want
so much to get It rolling, but I .
just don’t do-It..Do you think
I’m hooked on a kid’s dream?
.(?'m ‘now 24) or am. just
lazy? It-will cost quite a bit of
I time and take a'lot of money
so do you think I Just don’t If your reasons for resurr-
want to give up other thinge I. ecting' your old love are still:
could do with my time and good ones, give yourself the
money? I really want that car. fur and» reward: of getting

»but whydon’t I doit? started’at it right away! if the | .
reasons are no longer i“
STEWART: Could it. be ropriate to ‘your current: life

- that you are living in the past _ style, give yourself. the. fun:
and.that your strong reasons,..and reward of saying to.
for’ wanting “the dear old heck with it! ‘and remove .
- clunker wher you were.a kid, “ the carcass right away! Think.
-are ‘now no longer valid for. it out and act on it this week, :
ya.c Coutd it be that t really The indecision is bugaing,

_ you. Decide! ee
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and for noatly a yesie I have: “gmat and: ido it soon. ei told |
lived with her, Almost: my wife that If she. will have it Begs | lath
everyting about ‘her is. i oy” mo back and let mae to be Bi 2 a GR
‘compared to my wife, It has) # good husband and father, 1 Bi i soe HH a
been a great time forme, But, wi give up Tanya ®, She says, Bees nn na i ae Mt it L a i
‘here ts the problem, ‘I feel’ Vil "have : to olde about, BB: Hy Se ‘
guilty about what. I'm doing | giving, up Tanya. BEFORE. ie ' Khia

d deop In my; héart I'want’ sho gives ‘mo ananswer.She. |
tobe wi my Wife again.-The™ ‘gaye ae ‘Tong; as -I'm ‘with .
most Important thin alng though, tanya she won't-oven: think PTET crcaninnnaegcan
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and boing ® good father and: and: think THAT over." bo
family man. have told my, you think’ that’s fale
* gil Siend how I feel and she’ | He
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