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Freelance Counsellor Ha yden Stewart may be reached at 261-6242
for appointments for individual, family or group counselling. He will
be at the International Plaza every Tuesday from 9:30 a.m.

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QUESTION: What do you
think of this? A couple of
weeks ago I asked my
_ boyfriend what he kept
ftocked in a cabinet in a

keys must have woken him
up because the next thing I
know he’s hanging over me
screaming obscenities Ive
never heard from him

eorner of his room.—His-—before!—ti—-mean—he—was

answer (“Just papers and
stuff.”) didn’t satisfy me, but

pressed him. he wouldn't
open it and let me see. “It's
just garbage,” he would say,
“don't worry about it.”

Well, the other night my
curiosity got the best of me.
After I was sure he was
asleep, I found his key-ring
and opened the bottom
drawer. The sound of the

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He slammed- the
drawer shut and ordered me

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in the middle of the night
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Hayden: On several oc-
casions, in letters to this
column and even more often
in my counselling § con-
sultations, I have been asked
“Where can I find a group or
class or seminar that will
help me think through my
problem?” I would like to
give a partial answer. |

STEWART: See if some of
the following groups are
ones you are looking for:

“Parents. of Teens’’,
“Couples Communications
Skills”, “Living in Step”

(learning to live with a new
partner), “Our Aging

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Or unemployed), “Self
Image” (for women) “Stress

Management’, ‘Positive
Parenting" “Com-
munication With Your

Child”, “Working Through
Depression’, “Coping With
Anxiety’’ “Anger
Workshop”, “Building Self-
Esteem" “Conflict
Resolution” (for couples),
“Shyness Workshop’,
“Seress, Relaxation &
Prayer”.

All of the above, and
several others are offered by
only two of the several
organizations on the North

are offered by either the |

North Shore Living and
Learning Centre (926-5495)
or by North Shore Family
Services (988-5281).

If something in this partial
list catches your interest, by
all means call the numbers
and get more information.

It should be pointed out
that some of these groups
start late in January and
others in February: So get
your information and do
your registering aS soon as
possible.

The question

we are
addressing is,

“Where can I

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assistance.

. “Separating — A
New Beginning”, “Unem-
(a support group

organizations are presenting
additional opportunities.
The ones I

Invading someone else’ s
Private space (especially
after being told that it IS
private) can only be con-
sidered an extremely tacky
performance. Anything less
than deep respect for
another's privacy is almost
always detrimental to a
relationship.

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