Friday, October 9, 1992 ~ North Shore News - 7 \dd woman out Our society continues to maintain strange attitudes towards breast-feeding WHAT DO a goldsmith shop in Prince George and Lon- don Drugs have in common? In one important way, both have taken actions that work against the optimal health of children. Last month, a Prince George woman was in a local goldsmith shop with her !2-week-ald daughter. The baby became hungry. Lynnell Marquette sat down in a small alcove and_began to nurse . her child, pulling a blanket over her shculder and the baby. A female salesclerk in the store asked Marquette to leave, com- menting that breast-feeding made people uncomfortable. When Marquette protested, the. male store manager applied extra pressure to ensure her departure. . Marquette has lodged a com-* ’ piaint with the B.C. Council of * Human Rights. As for London Drugs, the chain is currently giving a leg-up to one of the Jarger infant formula man- ufacturers, Ross Laboratories. Under the guise of informing women about breast-feeding, Ross provides free samples of formula ~ and formula information in a gift pack. Apparently, London Drugs feels absolutely no hesitation in using respected health professionals to peddle formula (women collect ’ their gift packs from the store’s pharmacists). Nor does London Drugs feel any ethical obligation to follow . the World Health Organization’s (WHO) international cade, which includes no advertising of formula products to the public and no free samples to mothers. Both these cases show just how far we still have to go in our ac- ceptance and support of a basic heaith choice that has been proven better for babies. In the Prince George incident, the suggestion that breast-feeding -- makes people feet uncomforiable MAILE Civilized Catherine JUST ADD WATER seems (o imply there’s something indecent and sexual about the act of a child feeding at a mother’s breast. Just how warped have we hecome to want to banish a breast-feeding woman from sight? Unfortunately, this weird at- tiiude toward what should be the most naturai and acceptable of occurrences isn’t limited to Prince George. As Dr. Verity Livingstone, med- ical director of the Vancouver . Breast-feeding Centre at VGH, says, ‘‘Many women are shy about breast-feeding and many husbands are embarrassed about their wives doing it. The fact that these days you're the ‘‘odd woman out" if you're committed to breast-feeding points to a critical disconnection that has occurred between mothers today and women throughout the centuries. (know my grandmothers OX parting entirely possible Dear Editor: The coming referendum was . conceived with the idea of keeping the country together, but many politicians present the issue in such a way that one is inclined to believe that no matter what the result of the vote, we always lose. Among other reasons, because -Canada will be smailer. Still, con- trary to common belief, a small country does not have to be dependent and poor. . Switzerland, Sweden, Norway and Finland, although their com- bined population hardly equals that of Canada, and they have fewer natural resources than we do, are unquestionably free and ‘” have the world’s highest standard of living. ! believe that friendly co-ex- istence’ of the Anglo-Canadians and the Quebecois is possible : whether separated or not, provid- ed we do not act like offended - children. A few examples should explain why. Norway seceded from Sweden in 1905, which did not prevent both countries from co-existing peacefully. Hungary and Austria, part of the same empire, parted in 1918 with no calamitous results. And recently Czechoslovakia split in two countries without cries of desperation being heard. Civilized parting without threat, hate or venom would not change much in our case either. Also, let us not close eyes to the fact. that the Quebécois are dif- ferent by their history, religion, culture and legal system (Napole- onic Code) and this is at the root of discord. Having lived for years in English-speaking Canada, in Quebec and in the U.S.A., I daresay the Quebecois differ more from us than we differ from the Americans, and still not many Canadians would justify on that basis asking that Canada be ad- mitted into the U.S.A. federation. To end this letter, | want to emphasize that I would prefer this countzy to stay together, but if it splits I will not despair, because ! believe that sincere cooperation ‘would be established soon after partition. We cooperate amicably with many countries of the world; why shouldn't we cooperate with Quebec? Alexander Kadulski North Vancouver breast-fed their children, but I can’t talk to my own mother about the most basic of maternal experiences because the mothers of the ’50s and 60s were fed the miracle of formula feeding. Like so many children of my genera- tion, I was not breast-fed. While the promotion at London Drugs appears to provide some support to breast-feeding, as Renee Hefti of the B.C. Breast- feeding Coalition points out, it carries a subtle message that underrnines the self-confidence of women: ‘‘Breast is best, but...°* In other words: ‘‘If it’s just too hard, Mom, we're there for you and your baby with formula.”’ The coalition is calling for a boycott of all London Drugs stores in the province because of the promotion. : Anyone who has tried to put a newborn to the breast, or has talked to women about that expe- rience, Knows how crucial self- confidence is in successful nurs- ing. My own experience is probably not unusual. I awoke in my hospi- tal hed after a lengthy labor and Caesarean section to a nurse chir- ping, ‘‘Feeding time.”’ { was so confused and frankly scared at what seemed like the superwoman task of aursing my son that { afmost blurted out to the nurse, ‘Isn't that your job?” It took me and my son at least two days to figure out how to get a good latch; if it hadn’t been for my commitment to breast-feeding and some patient nurses, I proba- bly would have caved in and re- quested formula. Through this initial phase, 1 had the overwhelming feeling that J was alone with an awesome re- sponsibility. Sure, my husband was there saying. ‘You can do this, love."” But that wasn’t the same as having a reassuring woman there — a mother, grandmother or friend — who had already done it. Hefti, a registered nurse and West Van resident, says that 80% to 100% of B.C. women know it’s important to breast-feed. Women know breast-feeding builds a stronger immune systein in the child. They might also know that research indicates breast-fed babies have less diabetes and that breast-feeding provides essential fatty acids (that formula can’t) for critical brain growth in the first year of life. The sad fact that after a year less than 10% of women are fol- More time needed Dear Editor: Canadians are being asked to judge a unity deal that most peo- ple will never see till after we have voted. The text has not, and will not, be out in time for any kind of study. Canadians are shocked to see some of the decisions and rulings that came from the Charter of Rights and Freedoms. This is because we got something that we had never seen, and §. know we would not have allowed it, had we seen the basic values we uphold be diminished. The same principle applies now, Nobody is totally happy with the agreement as written, and to have a government ask us to hold our noses and vote Yes is ridicu- lous. The U.S. Congress took 10 years to come up with their constitution and we should do no less. We should not accept second best; no Canadian should. The problems from my point of view are the seat representation in the House, the so-called elected Senate, the entrenchment of three Supreme Court seats, and the amending formula. We have moved all the senators from one building to being back- benchers in another; imagine 400 at the public trough. They have only 530 in the U.S. government for a population 10 times larger. By the way, if our Supreme Court judges are deemed to be impartial decision-makers, why should Quebec have three seuts always? lowing WHO feeding guidelines is not because women don't know breast-feeding is healthier, cheaper and more convenient — it is due overwhelmingly to a lack of support in this society. The truth is, there are powerful financial inducements for the various players in the health-care system to promote (however subt- ly and professionaliy) the use of formula. “Every year, companies make $11 billion in profits worldwide by artificially feeding babies,’’ Dr. Livingstone points out: !n other words, selling formula has become a high-stakes market- ing game. Lest there be any doubt thar moving product is the priority; London Drugs has dispelled it by using its vice-president of mer- chandising (as opposed to a pharmacist) as a spokesman throughout the controversy over the ‘chain’s promotion. - Commenting on the promotion, Leonard Marks said: ‘ft is for women who have had a baby and who we hope will become custom- ers of London Drugs and take advantage of the products we sell’? . Beautifully put, Mr. Marks. ERNE AN REARCONST to decide seats. The best available people should tbe named, even if they were all from the Yukon for stance. I also believe the amending formula will make it virtually im- possible to improve this “pig in a poke’’ we are asked to approve, particularly in light of varying veto powers. i do not buy the argument that a No vote will destroy the coun- try. I believe that by being rea- sonable and understanding we can have a constititution that would meet with approval by all. So let us take the time (we have lots of it) and do the job right. L.B. Seward North Vancouver in-