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1975 income Tax return and I. -

did it | dishonestly. I was in.an_

‘temptation to make.

better for myself. It isn’t that .
_ fit was a large amount but just ‘

~ that. I figured out .how’ to

cheat and then § did. it. Pye
: DoH os

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His new office - In the Plaza
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a aaa ;
Good age

to get -
out of rut.

QUESTION: | ve had a
strange kind of restlessness
lately. I want to move or
change jobs or leave my wife
and go hang-gliding or
SOMETHING new and dif-
ferent. I'm 40. Is that why?

STEWART: Try to
what’s happening to you as a
sort of creative unrest. Pay
attention to it, and be
grateful for it. Invite your
brains to be partners with
your feelings. Together, they
just might allow your higher
self to lure you into an
experience of mor. fulfilled
living. Your wife would
probably like to have that
experience with you. 40 is a
good time to get out of that

example

QUESTION: Pm 3 a cheat and :
IT am reminded of ft: im a : since: and™
dozen ways, every .day.of-my -
life. What im the world cam I“
_ do about it to get past this -

‘awfal ‘fecling I have about.~
‘myself? You see what 1. did:

was back in 1976 I sent in my ‘get. caught: so. I could get -

“everything: on . the- level
. again. What can I do? —

awiui bind as far as money: ” '
gees and gave in to ‘the © STEWART: Hey! rm glad t to

8. . hear from someone whoisas ~
- troubled as * you” “are. about.
:cheating.
to “things ‘-yow have. "already |
~done.: -
clearly. -
‘ dishonesty. is. ‘bothering you

and you : have taken a step
: toward _ trying. to’ put things

“itcome tax time:
Keminded of it all the time. I -.

ry usually very honest and I:
flee”

see.

been feeling | like a érook € ever. . "correcting a. ‘mistake-i in. : your :
‘ return, not in order to make .-
“yourself. out a cheater or to.
‘confess your ‘sins.”” That:
‘part . of your need is being -
attended. -to by. your own’.
. desire : to. put ‘everything _
Tight: And anyway, that)is a’
matter between you : and your
-God. Simply. ‘phone the.
-. Income, Tax ‘people. and.- tel
them you made‘a mistake in
your 1975 return, and ask
them: how you go about

now. ‘that | it. ‘fis.
‘again I get.

-really.. ashamed....of .
myself... At: times’ I wish Pd —

Two. important |

“You. have” become
“aware -that your

: right. Good man! Vi we. need
more like > you.
‘The Income Tax people are

‘not’ really - interested in
contributing to (or taking
_ away from) your moral health
or your purity of conscience
and so it is logical for you to.
goto them for the purpose of —

a UESTION: Beck” to. your

_ letter of a couple: of weeks
‘ege sheut the FH My —
daupiier and i talked abeut .

it. Her logic was intriguingly

weird! She says she’d like to." _

tell the kids she’s on the Pill
with permission of her
parents because that would

sound good to ker peers. She 7

would win points from them

for being so grown up. and |.

correcting it. I believe they

‘will be helpful and ccopera- -
tive. If you feel jittery about
‘taking that advice, (knowing
. Lam nota legal of tax expert)

you’d betier™ ‘confer. with a

lawyer ora tax consulta:

Bon’t put it ff though.

want’ things | ght, ‘SO. ‘get

started at puttin iing them right.

‘You'll, feel’ good © about.”
“getting that. load off _ your:
shoulders! . an

her parénts would win. for - -

being cool.'Then she added,

wistfully that it wouldn’t be . ;

too cool though because the

word would get around and

she doesn’t want to have sex
yet! Golly, ’'m glad Pm not a
kid in 1978.

-masty hypocritical negative

. prohibitions: of..our day, I.

think it was easier for us than
it-is for today’s kids. —

STEWART: Yes, our kids’
today are having to live in the

middle of a very far-reaching

revolution in which we have

not yet learned to handle
ourselves adequately. The
kids are here, the Pills are
here. The resources for living
adequately in such a situ-
ation are not in the Pill - they
are in the kids. Some of them
will be in charge of them-
selves and in charge of the
Pill. And then, others...?!?!

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for. that busy" bridge. If the’
old
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You may:
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a tinker toy you’re. ‘driving,

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bird who was. - driving. ate
. about’ 25. Ordinarily I drive |
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