with we have a lot to learn,
bat I think it is a crary thing
to enroll in a course. with
other people and in that very

MD went: fo

ones betwhs Busokend
to find in the churches?

STEWART: Aw, quit your
grouching. You got what you
expected. You went to
church with the idea in your

head ‘that it would be. an

experience that you did not
like and could ‘complain
about later. So you wen

and it was, and you have! .

(To paraphrase an oft-
quoted Old Testament
comment) . ,
If Christianity “may be

of how much we

get out of it? Do you think .

it’s a good idea? |

STEWART: If the course is

a good one, it will amount to
a lot more than your being
“taught how to make love”.

. In view of your obvious
_misconceptions. regarding

the course, and your ob-
jections to it, it would. make
sense for you to. request. a
study outline or better still,
an interview with the leader

dered” vit makes sense to-me © |
.that you. would..be wise to -
hh search it out. You've already

voted dgainst the church as a
“likely hiding place for it, so
now what? Perhaps.you have
_ the sense that ‘the real: “thing
is within. “us, (as' opposed to.
- being. in‘.a’ certain: place ©
outside us). ° If tha
case, you are being offe da.

) feels ‘confident hat there” is

‘no limiting . what -you: may
find . within yourself: ‘that is.
just what the., doctor or-

QUESTION: - ‘Regarding
your column's reference to

“male chauvinist pigs” =

couple of weeks back. I just
have.to share with you, my
favourite definition. A male
chauvinist pig is a man who

‘thinks women are incapable
of bringing home the bacon!

Don't you think that if we
could all work towards being
one’s own PERSON we'd see
a Hot more happiness. and

: “into ..

unnatural ‘to get. ‘help’ in. are

You may be: hesitant, ‘for

rather, to set 4
“and: its “ “weaknesses - as a
whipping boy.- That's O.K.
with me. But: ‘when. you tire-
of it, or sense ‘that: _you,
.yourself, may. chave ‘sli
“the. ws

-outmoded-hogwash”

yourself, please be .open. to
“going after the: real heart. of.
-Christianity- which is ‘aleady
within. and awaiting your
celebrating its: magnificence.

Pigs are | boars -

contentment
ourselves?

STEWART: I do, I do. In

fact, that may well be pretty

close to the purpose of life.
And while we're on

definitions, -how’s this onc? .

A woman told me the other
day that a “male chauvinist

pig is such a boar!” (Or —

would she have spelled it
bore?)

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amie- old- -
of |
blaming someone.. outside.

.

how to ‘eat well. It is un-

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natural to go to the proper
Specialist and to be taught to
see better by learning to
develop certain eye musices
etc. We do a lot of things
: that seem to be “unnatural”.
You say, “TIl go along
with we have a lot to learn”.
. That is. a good start —
‘recognizing a need. You
may. not need a set course to
learn it. But if you don’t get a
very joyous feeling that you
“making rewarding oo
headway on your own, then
. take the course! If you don’t May 7, 8, 9
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