3 ~ Sunday, May 8, 1988.- North Share News LIFESTYLES NEW ‘CLICHES | Don t discourage gratitude - DEAR MISS MANNER S — I would appreciate your views on the embroidering of standard necessary cliches. For ex- ample, ‘‘May I help you?’’ has, in recent years, -become pected to have arrived. Otherwise, cach" person will: be obligated to sun around and find both of you before he can properly participate TRACK ‘How many I help you?” irritating.” On radio talk shows of the cail- .. in type, a ridiculous new cliche has sprung ug: ‘‘Thaak you for taking. my: call.’* Iv no one called. there wouid be no show. I see no need tu —- an expression I personally find _around discouraging. people from an excess of gratitude, which is not one of the problems in the worid today. DEAR > MiSS ‘MANNERS - von My wife and, I are planning a party to celebrate our 25th wedding an- niversary, of = local inn with 350 relatives and friends. _ If guests bring gifts, what is the - proper procedure to register them, and how should: thank-yous - -be “banded?” * Showld we be avaitable fo greet - the guests as (key enter, or should ‘we form a receiving line? How ‘tong should we do this? ‘and ” ac . possible one, for being available to GENTLE READER _ At receiving line-is nothing more than a device, in: fact the most’: efficient greet -one’s guests. as they crter. How it. got .to- be thought’ of. as “<, some sort: of - pretentious -obstacle | COUTSE, « SMOW.) cet ‘Miss Manners © doesn’t By all means ‘form. onc until all. 7 your. guests may. Seasonably be ex ., Did you ‘know’ that smoking has” become an increasingly impor. _ tant factor in the ‘choice of: a. date’ today? ‘Most: youre. ‘men “ in the party. As presumably not all guests will be bringing presents, you do not want to make too much ofa fuss _ over those who do. ‘ It would be sensible to have an_ inconspicuous place where you can | easily stash them, taking the. time (or assigning. someone’ clse):. to write the names on the packages. You ‘may open them in private after the party and‘ write your thanks. “Made on the | premises boy. the “finest craftsmen. Hardwood") rames properly dawelled and °° : ner blocked.’ Webb and coil =. spring construction ‘all 8-way >”. hand ded.“All fabrics patterned * match and Seotchguarded. ” 2 Only the beat materials used,.”: sofa. Luxurious”. “down cshions seat and back. : “"@ BING. Rerth of Geildtord. 50% OFF st NORTH VANCOUVER m BURNABY 1400 MARINE DRIVE 4700 E. HASTINGS ' 9BEO84 TRS LIGHTS © "SURREY: “14625-108th AVE. Phone 585-8877 (A) All those lavish - import fabrics. » (BY Gorgeous tettutes and